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Date of upload: Jul 13, 2023 ^^
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One time on tumblr I saw someone say something that really stuck with me:
ācalling my lover "mine" but not in the way that my toothbrush or notebook are mine, mine in the way my neighborhood is mine, and also everybody else's,
"mine" like mine to tend to, mine to care for, mine to love. "mine" not like possession but devotion.ā
Edit: War in the comments!! People are arguing a lot about the neighborhood comparison, and so I thought maybe you can think of it in the way that your neighborhood is yours but you also have an individual house. We each have a neighborhood within ourselves of who we love and how, informing how we decorate the interior, as each house is unique yet all part of the whole which is taken care of by everyone. Tbh maybe even that moves away from the intent of then original post, so Iād also say itās more like renting a house than owning one.
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Love is patient,Ā love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.Ā It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking,Ā it is not easily angered,Ā it keeps no record of wrongs.Ā Love does not delight in evilĀ but rejoices with the truth.Ā It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
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My partner and I stated in the beginning of our relationship that we do NOT belong to each other, we are our own individuals but we will go on forward as a team.
We recently broke up(2 weeks ago, mutual decision) but God damn, you want a good woman to hold you accountable, take responsibility and make you grow. Even though the breakup was mutual, I was attached to her, the safety and how she made me grow. Still I didn't want to lose her. The sooner I accepted the reality of impermanence, I was able to float with the current instead of resisting it. I of course will have ups and downs but the impact a partner can have on you is not to be understated.
I'm a better man today because of her.
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@tonyadair0754
8 months ago
"If you love a flower, don't pick it up. Because if you pick it up it dies, and it ceases to be what you love. So, if you love a flower, let it be. Love is not about possession; love is about appreciation." - Osho
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