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do you want to be loved or do you want to be yourself?
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The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture
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@Sisyphus55

1 year ago

Keep exploring at brilliant.org/Sisyphus55/. Get started for free, and hurry—the first 200 people get 20% off an annual premium subscription.

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@asher2215

1 year ago

I love how each Sisyphus video either gives me a reality check or an existential crisis

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@nick9

1 year ago

"it is sobering to realize that many of the personality traits we have come to believe are us, and perhaps even take pride in, actually bear the scars of where we lost connection to ourselves, way back when"

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@maddieb.4282

8 months ago

If you want to be accepted as yourself you need to accept others as themselves. Make the people around you feel like they can be imperfect and fail and you won’t be judgmental. The change starts with each of us

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@deniseespinoza8319

1 year ago

I stopped opening up to people because a lot are entitled, manipulative, and deceitful. Every time I express myself I end up being judged, or misunderstood. Not everyone has the depth or patience to understand you.

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@abrahamben-dayan9843

1 year ago

My solution to this tension has always been to be a person that I MYSELF can respect. To BE a genuinely good person mainly for the sake of my own sanity and self esteem. It's a wierd sort of self-serving altruism. To hold myself accountable & forgive myself when I fall short. It is also to take pride in my efforts and my intentions rather than the results.

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@shitmypants5275

1 year ago

As someone with social anxiety this is all I pondered my whole life. I can't be myself because I hate myself lol

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@captaint1180

10 months ago

“Those who are hardest to love need it the most.” -Socrates

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@sound_soup

1 year ago

> mask yourself > meet soneone you like > remove the mask > see how the person reacts > if they like your true self, attempt relationship > realise that both of you don't like every aspect of each other > Communicate > Compromise > Reflect > Be happy while being yourself✅

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@TheDoomWizard

1 year ago

It is so difficult to be yourself in a world that wants you to be anything but.

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@jkim1316

7 months ago

“If I had a prayer, it would be this: ‘God, spare me from the desire for love, approval, and appreciation. Amen.’” -Byron Katie. I’m a woman, and this quote from her helped me immensely. My anxiety level plummeted and has been very low ever since.

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@isntitrich000

8 months ago

Making notes: 1. Face the voices of childhood trauma and separate them from yourself 2. Your life and health/well-being is yours and not something you exchange for love and validation 3. Don’t use shame and guilt as a way to punish or “discipline” yourself. Or at least not on the little things

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@aquablu3876

7 months ago

Kind of unrelated but I realized a lot of people thought "I'm bad, so I need to work hard to be good and accepted." Whereas my mindset was more "I'm bad, so I need to stop interacting with people so they don't get hurt or disappointed." This video made me rethink some things

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@madisonarsenault629

1 year ago

I just had a giant fight on Christmas Day with my mother because I "stepped out of line" and expressed my feelings and it "ruined everything" I really needed this, thank you

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@smhluckymango

1 year ago

I will never get over how perfectly timed These Videos are. I can be dealing with an issue or struggling with a concept and suddenly a Video discussing the exact topic or something related to it comes out. The amount of times I've been surprised by how appealing and accurate some of the titles Sound to my current Situation is honestly getting rather scary xd

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@chuckyduckygettingluckytonight

7 months ago

I started being unapologetically myself when I got to college. A lot of people did not like me for it. But a lot of people did, and because they liked me for me, those relationships became extra meaningful and genuine. I like to think that I'd rather have 15 amazing ones rather than 100 good/ok ones. I am happier this way.

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@megp4732

11 months ago

how you define being "yourself" is crucial. in my opinion being yourself is all in the behavior you CHOOSE. We all have impulsive thoughts but much more of your moral character shown in how you filter. Filtering to an extent is healthy and is done out of compassion. the reason I dont act out when im angry is because its damaging to the people around me. In this way im being my compassionate SELF by filtering.

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@Commieslowj4ms

1 year ago

It’s so wild how Sisyphus always puts out the videos that address a crisis I’m facing 😭

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@edfmed1080

1 year ago

What i learned from my 6 year long relationship and social interaction in general (and this will sound harsh): Is that people don't like you for who you are, they tolerate you for whatever good you bring to their life and cut you when you are not that good anymore. I used to complain about that for a long time, how being human is being a selfish interested creature, but then i realized: I am not that good myself, and people don't have to accept me for who i am (not even my closest most loved person), changing things about yourself can be good, but not being a people pleaser. Be nice to other people but be authentic with yourself.

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@magikarpslapper759

1 year ago

I've felt the most alone when with other people. I let my personality be squashed by others, and it made me sick. It took me a while to realise that real friendship depends on respect, and that no one can respect someone who doesn't respect themselves.

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