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We're here to help you figure it out. We're reveal the real deal behind emotions and how to tell if it's love or just a clingy vibe.
How To Detach From People And Situations (Be Free): Ā Ā Ā ā¢Ā HowĀ ToĀ DetachĀ FromĀ PeopleĀ AndĀ Situati...Ā Ā
You're Not Broken, The Dating World Is: Ā Ā Ā ā¢Ā You'reĀ NotĀ Broken,Ā TheĀ DatingĀ WorldĀ IsĀ Ā
5 Ways You're Pushing Your Crush Away Unconsciously Ā Ā Ā ā¢Ā 5Ā WaysĀ You'reĀ PushingĀ YourĀ CrushĀ Away...Ā Ā
#relationship #love #dating #attachment
Writer: Chloe Avenasa
Editor: Rida Batool
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice Over: Amanda Silvera (youtube.com/amandasilvera )
Animator: Krisha Que youtube.com/@MacchiusMoriatoStudios07
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong
References:
Hatfield, E., & Rapson, R. (1993). Love and attachment processes. Handbook of emotions, 595-604. In M. Lewis & J. M. Haviland (Eds.), The Guilford Press.
Hatvany, O. (2016). The Effects of Criticism on Relationships. PsychCentral. Retrieved from psychcentral.com/lib/the-effects-of-criticism-on-relationships#1
Wonderlin, K. [@kelseywonderlin]. (n.d.). Posts [Instagram profile]. Retrieved January 09, 2023, from hwww.instagram.com/kelseywonderlin.
Whitfield, C. L. (1993). Boundaries and relationships: Knowing, protecting and enjoying the self. Health Communications, Inc.
Carrico, B. (2021). What Is Emotional Invalidation? PsychCentral. Retrieved from psychcentral.com/health/reasons-you-and-others-invalidate-your-emotional-experience
Sosnoski, K. & Currin-Sheehan, K. (2022). Differences Between Love and Attachment. PsychCentral. Retrieved from psychcentral.com/health/attachment-vs-love#unhealthy-attachment
Views : 475,734
Genre: Education
Date of upload: Feb 1, 2024 ^^
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Top Comments of this video!! :3
1. Coping with conflict
2. Consistency
3. A feeling of safety
4. Healthy boundaries
5. Validating needs
6. Added Value
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Love. Is. NOT. an. Emotion.
That is where people go very wrong.
Emotions come and go, but when you actually love it's so much more. It's steadfast and deeper.
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āHealthy love should add value and meaning to your life. ā¦ Healthy loveā¦gives us a feeling of being understood, and accepted, feeling safe and secure, as well as a strong sense of belonging, and a significant improvement in our overall wellbeing.ā
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I donāt like how coincidentally personal these videos have been getting lately š
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I just realized I'm toxic now
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I was attached to my ex-wife. I was able to see that she did not add value to my life but had a hard time leaving because I didnāt think anyone else would love me. Iām alone and struggling now, but that is better for both of us than if I had stayed.
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Explains my last relationship with my ex; with me being the person who didn't care as much as I thought. Unhealthy attachments growing up led me to hurt a person who never deserved it
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I'm 25 years old and have never been in a relationship. I just met someone about a month ago and everything clicked so quickly. I keep having nervous thoughts though that my love for them was built somewhat on my prior loneliness and wanting to find a partner... but I think this video was the final thing I needed to make me confident it isn't. They check every box you presented. I've never felt more safe, validated, cared for, or comfortable being myself with anyone, and every day, all of these feelings only get stronger
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Love is something given freely with nothing wanted in return. Love is unconditional it does not disappear because of one misunderstanding or a few arguments. Love is kind, love is honest, love is.
Attachment on the other hand is an intense suffocating feeling mistaken for love. Attachment does not trust easily, Itās controlling. When you become attached to someone anxiety grows and the fear of losing them sets in which stops you from living in the moment and enjoying each other. Instead of loving each other time is spent on pointless arguments mainly caused by insecurities.
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Coping with conflict is the biggest thingā¦
She would constantly just cold shoulder & withdraw affection. I needed this.
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This video made me realize neither I ever truly loved anyone nor anyone ever truly loved me.
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I have a healthy relatiomship!!!! This made me worry a lot since we started dating in high school (now we're married) I always felt like we just depended on each other too emotionally, because of how our parents were. But, it turns out we're normal. We do have our fights and all, but wow we're actually normal. šā¤ā¤ā¤ā¤ā¤ thank you for the video!
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"or you feel that you don't have any better options"
ouch that's true
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For what felt like forever I was with someone who checked all these boxes. But I stayed because I thought if I loved her enough that would soften her up and make her nicer. Until I realized that itās not my job to fix an abuser and I deserve better. She was dragging my mental health down so I finally managed to leave. Took a lot of work in therapy but I could see the old me. I dated around but nobody wanted someone meaningful or lifelong. I kept trying until it became too hard. I gave up and thought maybe my ex was the best I could get. For years, 5 to be exact I thought Iād be alone for life. So I stuck to making friends and that was nice but my other half was missing. Until I met someone new that was one of my only healthy relationships. I finally feel whole. Even if it took a few years. My point being if your with an abuser or got the courage to leave them, youāve been healing yourself and dating around with what feels like forever; Donāt give up on love. ClichĆ©s can be true and you will wind up finding someone who cares about you and treats you how you need. Youāve got this ā¤
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Iām really upset that I never knew thisā¦ Iām always doing what I can to help her, and make her feel better even when she feels self doubtā¦ unfortunately, she told me just last night that she doesnāt want to date anyone anymoreā¦ and that broke meā¦ she knows I love herā¦ and Iāve been single for my entire life (minus 2 months of a āmehā relationship)ā¦ all I want is to love a woman, and be loved by her as wellā¦
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I noticed that I do some of the things wrong like criticize and disregard his dreams and I have noticed that I am becoming controlling and that is not the person that I want to be. There are things that he does wrong, but I do wrong to we definitely care for each other. We talked and we set boundaries so hopefully we can fix our relationship. I want to be better and he wants to be better so we are working together to make it work.
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Now I know I'm not in the right relationship š
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Seeing this made me realize that I should really let my ex to enjoy what he have rn. The relationship that they have is just like this and I just canāt accept it since ofc I still love him. As an avoidant, I canāt give that validation and security. Giving myself another perception lke this made me wish them both love and happiness.
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@Psych2go
3 months ago
Do you think you're attached or in love with them? Watch this video to watch which one you are in. This video might help you next. Watch next: 5 Differences Between Falling In Love and a Crush https://youtu.be/bvthEoVfVQc
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