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“The idea that one is in many ways an extremely difficult person to be in a relationship with may sound rather improbable and even at points offensive. Yet fully understanding and readily and graciously admitting to this possibility might be the surest way of making sure one is an endurable proposition over the long-term. There are few people more deeply insufferable than those who don’t, at regular intervals, suspect they might be so…”
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Top Comments of this video!! :3
fun fact : you didn't search for this.
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“Those who are hardest to love need it the most.” -Socrates
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The fact that he says “we” instead of “you” changes everything
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My favorite philosophy to fall back on has always been "If I had an exact clone of myself, would I enjoy being in a relationship with them?" Whenever I feel like there's a trait in myself that I would have a hard time loving I try to change it. I'm still not perfect of course, but I think I'd be pretty good friends with a clone of myself ^^
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Am I difficult to love?
Short answer: yes
Long answer: yeeeeeeeesssssssss
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So who's dying alone like me?
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This is a breath of fresh air. I think like many people, I am a little tired of the humanistic view constantly telling me I am good just the way I am, when I know myself too well for that. What I really need and this explores, is to begin to make sense of how much I need to change and how much that matters.
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I am very hard to love yes, but those who love me are truly special to me.
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sometimes you just need a calming British accent to tell you like it is
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Do you want a significant other or an overly committed therapist
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I'm autistic and was raised by fairly emotionally absent parents, and my years of therapy were primarily focused on reducing trauma. From the bottom of my heart, thank you. These videos teach me things that nobody ever did.
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I think I am insufferable and that's completely fine, just because I don't bother anyone with my bad traits being single my whole life. I don't think everyone should have everything, there are just some doors that stay closed forever for one particular person.
Not everyone will be an NBA superstar, not everyone will get a high-paying job, not everyone will live in more than one century... I guess not everyone will be loved and in relationships.
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“Our parents loved us too much to tell us.” Lol. I wish.
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Highly critical parents can make one feel unlovable. Took years to get past that one
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"There are few people more deeply insufferable than those who don't, at regular intervals, suspect that they might be so." That is one of the greatest things I've ever heard, I have thought that exact thing before but you said it so elegantly.
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I love this because it’s not only applicable to romantic love, but any kind of relationship with others.
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Happiness is not the absence of problems; it's the ability to deal with them...
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hey sorry i can't go to dinner with you, i need to go to india
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I wanna be a decent guy all the time not causing drama which hurts ppl close to me and pushes the away
I wanna be able to find more joy in my life not by pleasing other but by doing what i love and taking others with me to maybe give them an idea what can be done.
Last but not least, I wanna be a father, husband and maybe grandpa one day you don't wanna have missed.
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