Views : 810,351
Genre: Film & Animation
Date of upload: Aug 8, 2023 ^^
Rating : 4.977 (377/64,731 LTDR)
RYD date created : 2024-04-29T06:42:16.16591Z
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Top Comments of this video!! :3
Whoever is reading this, do not share this video with them. They won't suddenly change their mind, it is better like this. Stop hurting yourself, please. Give it some time, there are better days ahead now that you've gotten to know yourself better.
Also please remind me that I said this, cause I'm gonna need to read it a couple times this month
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"Meeting the wrong person at the right time means that you are ripe for real relationship, but you are mistaking the identity of the person to whom you are attracted. This can lead you astray and cost you a great deal in terms of time and energy."
Relationships and Higher Purpose by MV Summers.
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I think the crushing feeling of inadequacy hurts the most when someone slowly pulls away then eventually cuts you off when they feel good enough to do it. You didnāt get the chance to pre adjust while they did. Itās hard, but the feeling of getting over them and moving on is really lifting. Might take months and years but eventually everything is ok :)
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watching this video every day because it makes me cry. it just hurts so much. but also, iām so proud of myself. for really truly loving someone, for finally letting myself be vulnerable again, and for being everything that person could want in a partner. i tried so hard, cared so much, and did my absolute best to show someone how much they mean to me. i truly did my best. is a relationship what they need in their life right now? no. am i in pain every day? yes, but after losing my best friend to heroin in 2016, i hadnāt had a single close relationship with another person, platonic or romantic. i have a lot of healing and work to do, but i finally feel worthy of love again, and i finally feel like i actually deserve the work it takes to get better. itās going to suck, itās going to hurt, and itās going to take a long time, but i donāt think iām fundamentally broken anymore, and i do finally think i deserve to heal. thank you for this video :)
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"You opened yourself up entirely and things did not work out the way you expected them to. I'm sorry that this has happened" hit me hard and made me cry, but it felt like a good cry because I haven't felt seen or heard like this in a while (which is actually sad and probably the other reason why it made me so sad to hear these words coming from a strange person in a YouTube video instead of a friend)
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What confuses me the most is their reasoning for such abandonment. How could've everything seemed so perfect, yet their so called "love" started to dwindle until it became an unlit flame, while you were proceedingly just as joyful if not more? Why would someone ignore and throw everything away for their own deed without remorse? I could never do such a cruel thing. I just don't understand.
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@mia3886
8 months ago
You can love someone with your whole heart, and they can still not be the person for you. That's one of the toughest and hardest lessons I've had to learn.
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