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Fromm, E. (1956). The art of loving. [1st ed.] New York, Harper.
hooks, bell, 1952-2021. ( 2000). All about love : new visions. New York :William Morrow,
Krishnamurti, J. What are you doing with your life?
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Top Comments of this video!! :3
At the end of the day, if someone wants to be in your life, they will be. Truly - if they are capable, they will make the effort, and they will show up. If they do not - let that be your closure.
However, you do not have to hate them. You do not have to remember their contribution to your life as anything but beautiful. Do not ruin them in your mind, do not grip until you feel resentment.
Instead, love them without attachment. Love the lessons they taught you. Wish them well every single time you think about them. Miss them, but do not ache for them to come back. If the people in your life left because they were not ready to value you, or love you, or be there for you, do not wish for them back, do not ask for them to be more than they can be at the moment. Wish for them to figure themselves out. Wish for them to grow. They are on their own journey - a journey you are not a part of. And that is okay. You have to learn that that is okay.
So instead of focusing on the people who left, focus on the people in your life who have chosen to be there. Focus on the ones who stayed, on the ones who appreciate you and respect you. Focus on the people who match the love you give them, focus on the people who empower you and grow you and make your life beautiful. You are surrounded by human beings who will not shy away from the love you give. You are surrounded by human beings who know that they want you in their life, people who show you that every single day. Don't take them for granted. Don't lose touch with what you have, chasing what you no longer do.
Trust me when I say - you will miss out on beautiful things if you continue to stay rooted in all of the ways you were wronged, and if you continue to let your past pull you from experiencing what the present has to offer you. Do not close yourself off to your potential. Instead, open yourself to the world, and allow for it to fill that space with the kinds of people, the kinds of moments, and the kinds of experiences that exhilarate you, that compel you - that make you love yourself, and your life, and what you have to offer, more and more each day.
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Listening to this is eye opening. Itâs cruel to love someone for what you make of them. Itâs cruel to imprison someone in your idealism. Itâs cruel to hate yourself so much that you need someone to save you from it.
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" we do not feel secure in ourselves and so we attempt to own and dominate another in order to regain some security" hits so hard.
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One time on tumblr I saw someone say something that really stuck with me:
âcalling my lover "mine" but not in the way that my toothbrush or notebook are mine, mine in the way my neighborhood is mine, and also everybody else's,
"mine" like mine to tend to, mine to care for, mine to love. "mine" not like possession but devotion.â
Edit: War in the comments!! People are arguing a lot about the neighborhood comparison, and so I thought maybe you can think of it in the way that your neighborhood is yours but you also have an individual house. We each have a neighborhood within ourselves of who we love and how, informing how we decorate the interior, as each house is unique yet all part of the whole which is taken care of by everyone. Tbh maybe even that moves away from the intent of then original post, so Iâd also say itâs more like renting a house than owning one.
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Really scary how these videos drop whenever you need em
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âPassion comes through learning rather than through desire or gratificationâ
âListen without judgement, love without attachmentâ
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"Sometimes to love someone, you gotta be a stranger." I adore and despise the truth in this quote.
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Loving someone through attachment at first, and then realizing you truly do love them as they are, once you lose them, is one hell of an emotional roller coaster.
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The hardest thing I've had to learn is that no matter how important someone is to you, you cannot expect them to view you the same way. How to move on from this is something I'm still learning
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This couldnât have come at a better time, itâs hard loving someone who you know isnât there to stay forever đ
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Love does not control, it yields. It gives freedom and does not restrict...
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Moving on from a love lost is so difficult when she was the only person youâve ever had to actually show you that kind of love. When youâve been so alone your whole life. Iâll always love her. Iâm trying to let her go but itâs just so painful.
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I understand the need for boundaries in a relationship. Though at times it does get hard knowing that the person you love could leave at any time, I think learning to let go will be just as hard yet important as the process of building the relationship to start.
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I've told myself, "I'll never love this deeply again," three times now. The thought of saying it again isn't the soul-crushing exercise it used to be.
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Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
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This man deserves a PhD for this whole channel
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"To abandon the present in order to look
for things in the future is to throw away
the substance and hold onto the shadow"
-Tiknot Han
This Is an incredible quote, I like It A LOT!
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sometimes itâs hard to watch a sisyphus video because he drops so many golden bars back to back you donât have time to process the first one
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My partner and I stated in the beginning of our relationship that we do NOT belong to each other, we are our own individuals but we will go on forward as a team.
We recently broke up(2 weeks ago, mutual decision) but God damn, you want a good woman to hold you accountable, take responsibility and make you grow. Even though the breakup was mutual, I was attached to her, the safety and how she made me grow. Still I didn't want to lose her. The sooner I accepted the reality of impermanence, I was able to float with the current instead of resisting it. I of course will have ups and downs but the impact a partner can have on you is not to be understated.
I'm a better man today because of her.
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@tonyadair0754
8 months ago
"If you love a flower, don't pick it up. Because if you pick it up it dies, and it ceases to be what you love. So, if you love a flower, let it be. Love is not about possession; love is about appreciation." - Osho
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