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Date of upload: Dec 24, 2022 ^^
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My solution to this tension has always been to be a person that I MYSELF can respect. To BE a genuinely good person mainly for the sake of my own sanity and self esteem. It's a wierd sort of self-serving altruism. To hold myself accountable & forgive myself when I fall short. It is also to take pride in my efforts and my intentions rather than the results.
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Making notes:
1. Face the voices of childhood trauma and separate them from yourself
2. Your life and health/well-being is yours and not something you exchange for love and validation
3. Donât use shame and guilt as a way to punish or âdisciplineâ yourself. Or at least not on the little things
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What i learned from my 6 year long relationship and social interaction in general (and this will sound harsh): Is that people don't like you for who you are, they tolerate you for whatever good you bring to their life and cut you when you are not that good anymore.
I used to complain about that for a long time, how being human is being a selfish interested creature, but then i realized: I am not that good myself, and people don't have to accept me for who i am (not even my closest most loved person), changing things about yourself can be good, but not being a people pleaser. Be nice to other people but be authentic with yourself.
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I started being unapologetically myself when I got to college. A lot of people did not like me for it. But a lot of people did, and because they liked me for me, those relationships became extra meaningful and genuine. I like to think that I'd rather have 15 amazing ones rather than 100 good/ok ones.
I am happier this way.
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how you define being "yourself" is crucial. in my opinion being yourself is all in the behavior you CHOOSE. We all have impulsive thoughts but much more of your moral character shown in how you filter. Filtering to an extent is healthy and is done out of compassion. the reason I dont act out when im angry is because its damaging to the people around me. In this way im being my compassionate SELF by filtering.
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As someone who grew up with pretty high functioning autism, this actually wasnât a very big issue for me. I knew I was different from others and simply couldnât care less. Even if I didnât always feel as though I fit in properly, I sternly held my ground and kept to my interests and personality traits. This isnât to say that there wasnât sacrifice involved. Iâm eighteen and have yet to be in a relationship. But quite frankly I would rather die a painful death than give up that which makes me who I am.
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