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A lot of us feel like we don’t deserve to have our dreams come true or have good things happen to us, and sometimes, no matter how far we’ve made it or how much we’ve already accomplished, we still don’t feel content. Why is that?

The answer isn’t an easy one. Most likely, it’s when we grapple with feelings of self-loathing or self-hatred. Self-loathing is defined as a hatred for oneself that often manifests as anger, self-sabotage, a negative view of oneself, and low self-esteem.

If you relate to this video and you're struggling with self-hatred, we have a video on the things to remember when you think you're not good enough:    • 7 Things To Remember When You Think Y...  

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Writer: Chloe Avenasa
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References:
Brown, R. P., &Bosson, J. K. (2001). Narcissus Meets Sisyphus: Self-Love, Self-Loathing, and the Never-Ending Pursuit of Self-Worth. Psychological Inquiry, 12 (4), 210-213.

O’Moore, M., & Kirkham, C. (2001). Self-Esteem and its Relationship to Bullying Behaviour. Aggressive Behavior, 27 (4), p269-283.

Noormega, R. (2017). Signs You Hate Yourself And Don’t Even Realize It. Retrieved from www.thoughtcatalog.com/rayi-noormega/2017/signs-yo…

National Alliance Against Mental Illness (2018). Mental Health by The Numbers. Retrieved from www.nami.org/Learn-More/Mental-Health-By-the-Numbe…
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Top Comments of this video!! :3

@Psych2go

3 years ago

Hi everyone! Do you unintentionally hate yourself or know someone who does? We to all some extent lack a bit of self love, so that's why this video is made to help us recognize times when we may not be doing ourselves a service. If you resonate with any of these signs, know that you are not alone. We can only grow when we are self aware. Quick favor! We're launching a channel that makes our content more accessible in Korean. But on top of that we will be doing movies reviews from a psychological perspective. If you're interested, do consider supporting us here: https://youtu.be/NKLkjTZ-vyc on BPD. We have the English subtitles too!

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@fellamcgee

3 years ago

Me: “Huh, I guess I hate myself now” Also me: “Don’t worry I hate you too”

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@theimpossibros39

2 years ago

1) You tear yourself down. ✅ 2) You feel insecure about others. ✅ 3) You neglect your self-care. ✅ 4) You don’t let yourself be happy. ✅ 5) You isolate yourself from others. ✅ 6) You put on a facade for others. ✅ 7) You’re afraid to dream big. ✅ The test result are ready. You were right.

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@anasdarkaoui5351

1 month ago

You're not comfortable letting other people help as you believe your troubles are yours alone and you deserve them" That one hit deep 😢

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@georgettea7836

1 month ago

I'm in my 40's but the voices of the 5year old bullies are still in my mind everyday ! I can't escape them.

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@misery7897

2 years ago

1. You tear yourself down - ✔ 2. You feel insecure around others - ✔ 3. You neglect your self-care - ✔ 4. You don't let yourself be happy - ✔ 5. You isolate yourself from others - ✔ 6. You put on a facade for others - ✔ 7. You're afraid to dream big - ✔ Damn, first thing I got perfect score from.

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@feroltra9340

3 years ago

1. You tear yourself down 2. You compare yourself to others 3. You neglect your self care 4. You don’t let yourself be happy 5. You isolate yourself from others 6. You put on a facade for others 7. You’re afraid of dream big

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@probablytaha

2 months ago

I hate myself so much that I feel like people gaslight me when they compliment me

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@TheFancyIceCube

1 month ago

What’s sad is that when I opened up to my friends, they all laughed and thought I was joking. The only person who understood that I wasn’t joking was my best friend, and he told me that “all of us will probably make fun of you. Stop opening up. It makes us feel wrong and awkward.” I never opened up to anyone again.

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@midori58

3 years ago

the worst part is that I am 100% self-aware of all these things, yet I still do nothing about it.

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@liscan8978

2 years ago

Whenever someone compliments me, I feel like they're lying

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@chris_freaky305

4 months ago

I don't hate myself, just going through a rough time. I can do this. Thanks for this video.

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@xemma_xoxo

2 months ago

I know I hate myself. I don’t know why i’m just watching this. I just want to feel okay again

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@leahfenn9558

3 years ago

I know I hate myself, I'm just fact-checking at this point

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@oiradzenitram

3 years ago

It’s not a coincidence that this was recommended to me.

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@jessfavful

2 months ago

Oh boy do I love going down rabbit holes that make me feel terrible

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@MilesJ.

3 months ago

Video had me crying at work. I always knew I had some issues with myself and I’m aware of how worse I used to be- but to find out I still have this hatred for myself buried deep down, and to act like it’s not there all this time….its just scary to me. 🤦🏾‍♂️ I know nobody asked, but I wish us all the best of luck on the journey of self-love. We deserve love. We to accept ourselves before we accept anyone else.

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@yourfriendlyneighborhoodbl1520

3 years ago

Okay, YouTube, it’s starting to get personal now.

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@hash6680

3 years ago

Me who watches it anyway despite fully knowing how much I hate myself: Just making sure- (Edit: I never realized I resonated with so many people, lol. I hope you're all doing well to do better and wish you good luck. Be nice to people and, well, live laugh love.)

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@Ella.fromsaturn

4 months ago

“You feel insecure around others” literally me with all my gorgeous friends with boyfriends

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