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However old we might be, none of us is ever quite emotionally mature - but having a list to hand of what maturity consists of might be a way of keeping score and nudging ourselves in the right direction. Here is a comprehensive list of what maturity might comprise.

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“1. You realise that most of the bad behaviour of other people really comes down to fear and anxiety – rather than, as it is generally easier to presume, nastiness or idiocy. You loosen your hold on self-righteousness and stop thinking of the world as populated by either monsters or fools. It makes things less black and white at first, but in time, a great deal more interesting.
2. You learn that what is in your head can’t automatically be understood by other people. You realise that, unfortunately, you will have to articulate your intentions and feelings with the use of words – and can’t fairly blame others for not getting what you mean until you’ve spoken calmly and clearly.”

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@theschooloflifetv

4 years ago

How many of our 20 signs do you see in your own life? Let us know in the comments below and to join your fellow School of Life audience members, be sure to download our new free app: bit.ly/2HxH3C0

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@vicycross6037

4 years ago

I'm mature enough to realize I'll never be 100% emotionally mature

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@spoicydeemer985

3 years ago

"You are not better than anyone else and you can be wrong sometimes" The entire internet has left the chat

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@mynames..2719

4 months ago

I know I'm not when I saw Hitler at first glance.

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@MattlikestrainsOfficial

8 months ago

Were failing art school with this one 🗣🔥🔥🔥‼️‼️

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@stinkywizzleteats420

4 years ago

And most importantly your inner voice has a British accent. At that point you have fully matured. Well done chap.

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@Rootschannel

4 years ago

am I the only one who thought that the main character looks like Hitler?

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@casualpotato6499

8 months ago

"wow I'm so mature!" *Seconds earlier: Hahaha that drawing looks like hitler

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@technicaljayesh9643

9 months ago

I remember seeing this guy in my art school....

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@victorashul

4 years ago

maturity : understand that this video is also made by people who could be wrong

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@osse1n

4 years ago

Maturity is not based on age. It's an attitude built by experience.

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@coloredCYANIDE

6 months ago

20 signs for the busy schedule. 1) People are nervous and anxious or messy, don’t be black and white about how you feel on it 2) articulate intentions and feelings, no one reads minds 3) admit you’re wrong, apologize 4) confidence, everyone sucks but we try anyway lol 5) forgive parents for being humans 6) small things on mood— take care of yourself physically or don’t approach situations drunk or exhausted 7) don’t sulk, tell them and if not it’s cool move on 8) perfection isn’t real, you’re gonna hurt yourself getting there or thinking it’s out there 9) virtue of pessimism, calm and patience from it/lower expectations 10) people can be great in some ways and crap in others, no one’s perfect 11) fall in love less easily, everything looks perfect far away but chances are they’re annoying 12) you’re difficult too lol get over it 13) forgive yourself for your stuff, be your own friend because who else will 14) peace with your inner child 15) no grand plans for happiness and celebrate little things, aka lower expectations part 2 16) stop caring on what people think on you, small friend groups rule 17) hearing feedback and not reacting negatively 18) don’t live too close to problems, get out and make perspective, nature and animals have it right anyway aka get off social media and go move like a human 19) your past colors your response, accept and work with it 20) share vulnerability to build better relationships, not just joy

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@jessicablackmore8447

1 month ago

Parents had a choice, and chose to be bully's. They have had opportunities to apologise since, and have chosen to not. It's not usually the action, it's the reaction. When you say how they've hurt you down the years, and they don't care or say they can't live in the past. They are happy to talk about their own past, but not acknowledge the suffering they have caused. I acknowledge how I mess up my kids, it keeps me humbled. And I really do want to do better.

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@objectivereality908

3 years ago

People just watch these to feel good about themselves, including me

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@sadmanrafid3872

3 years ago

"Friendship is really about sharing vulnerability." Couldn't have said it any better!

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@bigjohn4498

7 months ago

The animation reminded me of a famous Austrian painter

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@JellyLancelot

8 months ago

I learned a lot of this in my early 20's just from life coming hard and fast, but life is forever a persuit of being better in ones self, to be better to those around you. So much of this I need to work on again as a refresher to myself, and some of it is new. This is a brilliant life guide - some top level bullet points!

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@luv.my.pencil477

3 years ago

One of the most important lessons I’ve learned in life is that emotional maturity is not about being perfect, it’s about being aware of yourself, and forgiving to others.

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@toto-wt7oq

4 years ago

I clicked on this video hoping that i could identify myself with some of these signs. Instead, this video taught me how to give life a better approach

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@AudioTruyenLangQue

5 months ago

I just love how they explain everything to us so we can understand them , and they make it fun so we don't get bored or distracted ( which happens to me very often) plus they are having fun to which is amazing. So thank you! You're amazing guys!

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