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Genre: Gaming
Date of upload: Jan 24, 2024 ^^
Rating : 4.979 (448/84,795 LTDR)
RYD date created : 2024-05-15T14:35:26.294787Z
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The hardest thing for me after it ended was the feeling of something missing in daily life. You become so used to having them around without realising and when they're gone, it kinda feels like you're physically in a different place. Home doesn't feel like home all of a sudden if that makes sense. Really weird and quite difficult to adjust to at first. Something I completely didn't expect. It took a long time for that feeling to pass but the lessons and experiences it gave me were worth every minute.
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On an unrelated note:
If you're going to break up with someone, tell them why you want to break up and spare no detail. The classic phrase "Its not you, its me" isn't a good enough response, because they are going to blame themselves regardless. Tell your soon to be ex what they did wrong or why you don't want to be with them. Leaving them to stew in their own thoughts over what they think they did wrong will only make things worse for both parties.
It's never soley one person's fault for a break-up.
Lying to make them feel better? Horrible move. Tell them you want to break up and tell them why. It's going to get ugly, whether its two seconds after you tell them or two weeks when they snap from frustration, but it's the best option for the long term so that both of you can move on and not be sitting wondering if they were really told everything about your reasons. Don't deny closure for the sake of comfort, It's insulting.
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it's funny how this video appears in my recommended 3 weeks after i had to break things off with my now ex-girlfriend. i was the one that ended up breaking up with her and for these few weeks now i've had it in my head that because of that somehow i am the bad one out of the two, but now i'm finally starting to realise that there's always two sides to the coin. nobody really talks about how hard it is to break up with someone you love, and i really did love her. it's heart wrenching and at times it feels like your body is almost forcing you not to do it, despite knowing that it is what is best for you. thanks for talking about this on here, it really is nice to be able to not only listen to you, but to also read through this comment section and know that this is a shared human experience
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if anyone fresh out of a breakup is reading this, you should understand you are in absolutely no rush to move on or heal. i know the first weeks and maybe months are a blinding cloud where you canât see whatâs ahead of you or whatâs destined for you. you feel like youâve lost everything, i know because iâve been there, but the world doesnât end at your first heartbreak, or your second, or your third. your world ends when you are satisfied. nobody is expecting you to be satisfied so soon after a breakup, it really is the worst feeling, grieving someone whoâs still alive. but the truth is, and itâs hard to understand early on, but you need to lose yourself, to find who you really are, because youâre still growing and changing. changing paths does not mean giving up, youâre allowing yourself to reach your full potential.
if youâre looking to move on but youâre not quite sure how, tie up your loose ends on your own. donât go back to them even if you want to so desperately, donât wait for them or expect them to come back, the less you know the better, and you will find peace in yourself, if you take time to yourself. moving into another relationship immediately never heals your wounds, i promise. even if you were the one who left the relationship, growth from experience is necessary, otherwise the experience led to nothing. finding peace in someone elseâs presence is denying yourself your true happiness that you deserve, find peace in yourself, so that you can be the best version of yourself for someone else in the future. moving on and healing has no time frame, its certainly not respective as to how long the relationship lasted either. iâve been in a two year relationship and a seven month relationship, and the seven month was the hardest in my experience. again, itâs hard to acknowledge now but the pain is necessary, growth hurts. physically or emotionally growth is a necessity, and it hurts but the fruits of it overcome the pain of the process. if youâre hurting, youâre healing properly, i promise you. donât rush yourself, in time everything will fall into place, i speak from experience. iâm still healing, and iâm still single many months later, but for the first time in so long i am genuinely happy on my own and with myself
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@nikoyaps
3 months ago
This is a very vulnerable comment section and I'm glad that you all feel comfortable enough to share your experiences! Be kind to each other now ;)
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