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Are you depressed because of your parents? We also made a video on the signs your parents are making you depressed:    â˘Â 10 Signs Your Parents are Making You ... Â
Article link with sources: psych2go.net/8-hurtful-things-parents-tell-childreâŚ
Disclaimer: This video isnât meant to diagnose, treat, or cure anyone. It is for informative purposes only, so if you or someone you know may be struggling, we urge you to seek professional help from a therapist or another trusted professional. If you can relate to any of these signs, please do not take this feedback as an attack on your character. This video was meant to be a self-improvement guide for those of you who have been feeling a little stuck.
Writer: Lily Mentriko
Script Editor: Isadora Ho
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
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References
Duncan, L. G., Coatsworth, J. D., & Greenberg, M. T. (2009, May 2). A Model of Mindful Parenting: Implications for ParentâChild Relationships and Prevention Research. Clinical Child and Family Psychology Review. link.springer.com/article/10.1007%2Fs10567-009-004âŚ.
Faircloth, C. (2010). âWhat Science Says is Bestâ: Parenting Practices, Scientific Authority and Maternal Identity. Sociological Research Online, 15(4), 85â98. doi.org/10.5153/sro.2175
Gryczkowski, M. R., Jordan, S. S., & Mercer, S. H. (2009, November 14). Differential Relations between Mothersâ and Fathersâ Parenting Practices and Child Externalizing Behavior. Journal of Child and Family Studies. link.springer.com/article/10.1007%2Fs10826-009-932âŚ.
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Top Comments of this video!! :3
âTalk to me about whatâs wrongâ
âIâm listeningâ
two sentences i have never heard in my entire life
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âThere are people who have it so much worseâ
âYouâre being selfishâ
âCrying isnât going to fix anythingâ
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Iâve learned many things from having strict parents
-hiding Emotions
-You can recognize their footsteps
-Learning by myself
-learning how to starve
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Skills I learned from having a toxic/strict parent
- sneaking things without anyone noticing
- recognizing sounds like steps
- seeing through lies
- not making empty promises
- going through a day by barely eating
Thanks mom.
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who else really wants to send this to their parents but are too scared because you know theyâre going to counter it with some shit reason? Just me?
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"How are you depressed and unhappy? You're life is so good. I've given you everything you could want. You're just spoiled. You don't know what it's like in the real world. You've never actually suffered."
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There are two phrases that my mother always repeated: "If you can't do something RIGHT, then don't do it AT ALL!" and later, when I felt depressed because of that and didn't do anything because I was afraid of making mistakes, she said "You're lazy, you won't achieve anything if you keep doing nothing!"
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My friend was asked seriously "why are you like this?" by her dad, for fathers day, she killed herself because what he said made her believe that he wanted her gone, and she really loved him, she just wanted what was best for him. She took her own life, for somebody she loved.
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Things I learn being in a strict family...
⢠Hiding emotions quickly
⢠Being able to recognise everyones footsteps
⢠Learning things by myself
⢠Good at keeping secrets
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"I had it worse growing up." Trauma isn't a contest, mom.
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my parents have said a lot of hurtful things to me but the one that hurt me the most was when my mom told she regretted giving birth to me. I really cried that day.Iwas only 13 when she said that.Then she said that two more times when I Was 15 I told her what she said hurt me she didn't care she was laughing and being proud of what she said.
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" Education was meant to give wisdom and not stress "
~ Isaac Scribe
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Grades and being successful in the future mattered more than my mental health, I want to be a better parent or a caretaker when I grow up.
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1. "You're so dramatic, grow up."
2. "Why are you like this?"
3. "You belong to me and no one else."
4. "As long as I'm feeding and clothing you, you'll follow my rules."
5. "You're too thin/overweight."
6. "I wish you were more like..."
7. "That's the way I was raised and I turned out fine."
8. "You were an accident."
Thank you soooo much for this information!!! <3
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Honestly this video hurts a lot. I was forced to grow up very fast after I turned 11 and was molested by a close family friend three seperate times until he ran away. Also doing the same to a few of his nephews before leaving. Ever since then my innocence was shattered and most of these things except being told I was an accident weren't even seen as problems. Im 20 years old now, turning 21 soon. Yet I carry so much truama from my childhood. My Mom has gotten a lot better now that I'm an adult; but when I was 16 I fought her boyfriend several times after he put his hands on my Mom. Defending her from her abuser; and she took his side and let him back into the home. After a few more fights I moved out at 17, and returned a little over a year and a half later after winding up homeless for a few months of that. Thankfully he was gone, and that's when my Mom apologized for everything. But it hurts; so much to think back on half the shit I've done. I'm leaving out so much here; but I have been through the ring of abuse so much. These videos are hurting my soul because I can't help but watch them; and hate myself for just how commonly I can relate to things in them. I'm a broken person; and my fucking head hurts. All the time.
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Stuff Iâve learned while with a toxic mother:
⢠The sound of her car coming into the garage
⢠The sound of her footsteps
⢠When she is mad but doesnât show it so I know to stay away until she calms down
⢠The difference between play-fighting and secretly hurting me
⢠How to stay calm when publicly humiliated
Iâm still fighting anxiety and depression while this is going on đđ
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My mom: you can tell me anything
Me: tells her âanythingâ
Mom: gets mad and starts yelling
Edit: I never realized how many people related to this omg
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âThats the way I was raised, and I turned out fine.â
This hurts so much
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There have been multiple instances where my Mom wanted me to walk the dogs or put away the dishes, then said,'As long as I'm paying the bills,you follow my rules'. That really made me feel like a burden to my parents. I don't get things a want unless I'm paying for it because my parents also have to deal with my hyperactive,younger brother and my older sister.
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2 years ago
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