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8 Things Parents Shouldn't Say to Their Child
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Have your parents ever told you something that, to this day, still makes you tear up every time you think about it? Our words hold so much more power than we realize, especially over others. But most of us don’t even realize that we’ve said something wrong until it’s too late and the damage has already been done. That’s why we’re taught from a young age the importance of thinking before we speak, a lesson we ought to remember even as adults and especially as parents.

DISCLAIMER: If you can relate to any of these signs, please do not take this feedback as an attack on your character. This video was meant to be a self-improvement guide for those of you who have been feeling a little stuck.

Is your child depressed? Watch this video to know:    • 8 Signs Your Child is Depressed (For ...  

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Burnett, P. C., & McCrindle, A. R. (1999). The Relationship Between Significant Others’ Positive and Negative Statements, Self-Talk, and Self-Esteem. Child Study Journal, 29(1), 39-39.
Colonnesi, C., Draijer, E. M., Jan JM Stams, G., Van der Bruggen, C. O., Bögels, S. M., & Noom, M. J. (2011). The relation between insecure attachment and child anxiety: A meta-analytic review. Journal of Clinical Child & Adolescent Psychology, 40(4), 630-645.
Jadon, P. S., & Tripathi, S. (2017). Effect of authoritarian parenting style on self esteem of the child: A systematic review. International Journal of Advance Research and Innovative Ideas in Education, 3(3), 909-913.
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@CindyPsych2go

9 months ago

We have a very important video for parents or parents-to-be on "8 Signs Your Child is Depressed (For Parents)" WATCH: https://youtu.be/Oyf9kEmLg7Y

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@anika9052

2 years ago (edited)

*offers virtual hugs to everyone down in the comments section who’s been mistreated by a parent* <3 much love for y’all

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@lonewolfnergiganos4000

2 years ago (edited)

It's true that some parents only care about their children's grades, they say nobody's perfect but expects perfection from them.

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@CYB3R_T1G3R

2 months ago

"quit crying or i'll give you a reason to" = not knowing how to comfort people

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@britneyliyali2204

2 months ago

"Be careful with your words. Once said, they can only be forgiven but never forgotten."

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@indigofenrir7236

2 years ago

"I wish I had never given birth to you!"

"You never did, Dad."

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@borablooded8532

2 years ago

"everyone have problems, your problem isn't a big deal"

everyone has problems that doesn't mean my problem is less important I deserve to be loved.

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@Your_local_person778

3 months ago (edited)

The "bc i said so" IS SO RELATABLE

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@kaidenhosking

2 months ago

"Because I said so" is a big cause of people not being able to say no. Because asking "Why do I have to" and getting the answer "Because I said so" just made it seem like there was no point in saying no to anyone, regardless of what they were asking and how harmful it could've been...

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@therianprincess4902

2 years ago

"Because I said so"
"This is stupid."
"You're being ridiculous."
"You need to grow up."
"I never had this problem with your sister when she was your age."

Yes, I have a very loving mother.

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@ivy_nightshade

2 years ago

Seriously, Parenting needs to be a subject at school, so that kids will know how to look after a younger person. Would be a lot more practical than teaching things you will never use in life....

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@jamiecloud8978

2 months ago

I have a baby sister and I have said a few of these things to her. It's a good reminder that my words are impactful and I need to continue working on putting thought behind my words. Thank you for the reminder.

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@braelynluster8257

2 months ago

“Stop crying before I really give you something to cry about!”
-Dad

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@adambomb1553

11 months ago

Parents often say things that they'll never remember...but their children will never forget.

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@NightcoreChase

2 years ago

Before I even watch, I have been told by my mother that “I wish I never gave birth to you” I didn’t cry but I think about it a lot , im a guy if it matters or not

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@Ririgachatuber

2 months ago

A few weeks ago, my mother said that i am a waste of money, all cause i didnt do my activities in time. She said that my brain is of a third grader, I inspire to be an artist but she said that my art is trash. Really made me think why i didnt get miscarriaged or abortioned or kick out..
This made me tear up. Those who relate with me, lets try to get through this and ignore their words.

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@Frog_Lovin_Child

2 months ago

My parents have threatened to kick me out over a mental break down I had. Or, when trying to explain how to help me in those situations, they have said, "We've tried those! They don't work with you!", but they have never done those things for me within the entire 14-15 years they have had me. From birth to now, they have never used the most important techniques that I have told them have worked several times in the past. I turned 14 a little over 2 months ago, and I have been diagnosed with multiple disorders and came out to them, but what I told them helps to support me, they don't even try to do. But I still have many friends to help me with my problems.

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@Layla_vlogs

2 years ago

I hear “because I said so” and “I’m the parent here” all the time. And yes the results are accurate, I’m very defiant, sneaky, and easily aggravated by my parents

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@ComicalRealm

2 years ago

"90% of parenting is just thinking about when you can lie down again" - Marge Simpson

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@diedeldoodle-art

1 month ago

6 of these things are sayd to me and that "I am going away and never come back" don't even hurts anymore...

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