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From breadcrumbing from an ex to classic narcissistic breadcrumbing examples, we break down the telltale signs of this manipulation tactic. Don't fall for the illusion of love when you're actually being manipulated. Tune in to learn how to recognize the red flags and reclaim your power in relationships. Knowledge is empowerment!
#manipulation #narcissist
Writer: Chloe Avenasa
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References:
McNeil, D. (2022 Mar 1). Breadcrumbing – 5 Signals to Watch Out For and How to Deal With It. Dr. Donna McNeil: The Relationship Expert. danamcneil.com/breadcrumbing-5-signals-to-watch-out-four-and-how-to-deal-with-it/
Zarrabi, R. (2022 Jun 6). "8 Signs of Being Breadcrumbed." Psychology Today. www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/mindful-dating/202206/8-signs-being-breadcrumbed
Soeiro, L. (2022 May 11). Red Flags of Breadcrumbing in a Relationship. Psychology Today. www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/i-hear-you/202205/red-flags-breadcrumbing-in-relationship
Soeiro, L. (2022 May 11). "Red Flags of Breadcrumbing in a Relationship." Psychology Today. www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/i-hear-you/202205/red-flags-breadcrumbing-in-relationship
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Top Comments of this video!! :3
-Uncertain situationship
-inconsistent communication
-Lack of future planning
-No personal investment
-Hot and cold behavior
-Temporary change
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If someone tries to play any mental games, that should be a dealbreaker. People with healthy self-esteem refuse to play games and trust themselves to find someone who will be straightforward with them.
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This is why I'm scared and horrified of dating. People aren't what I'm looking for in a long term haul after marriage.
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After my divorce, I unfortunately experienced breadcrumbing. Spent 5 months. I got really tired and “ghosted” the guy. Now I’m with a person that not only gives me the loaf, but brings also the supper. Never been so happy.
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My ex girlfriend literally did everything you describe here, and more!
"Maybeee" was her favorite word. She did not want me to meet her relatives, and kept me away on holidays. Vague, hot and cold, distant, secretive, cruel mental games. Then giving crumbs of hope... many. Showing up at my door, after we broke up. Calling, saying nice things with no follow up.
Finally, I grew tired of the emotional abuse, and cut things off. But it was hard.
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This literally spelt out my last "relationship". Absolute torture full of uncertainty and anxiety. I wish I didn't make so many excuses for her, and just accepted the fact that if she actually wanted to, she would. Always thought maybe I was the problem, and I was simply not understanding her enough, but the reality was, I was Bread crumed as a source of attention and validation without any real desire to keep me. It's hard to process and I'm still processing it.
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If i ever was in a relationship, the 5 most important things I'd give my partner are
- Personal space and time
- Support
- Take accountability in the relationship
- Solve the relationship
- Be genuine to them
I dont want my partner to end up being manipulative
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This is exactly what I experienced in a recent relationship - such a painful and demoralising experience 😤😓
Remember, while your value is not defined by the way others choose to treat you, you set the example. Do not tolerate poor treatment. You deserve better! 💛
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silence speaks louder then words do
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I have not only seen this with situations of love, but in friendships as well.
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Having experienced breadcrumbing firsthand, I've come to realize that it's not our fault. We all deserve open communication and mutual respect in our relationships. Here are three tips on how to deal with breadcrumbing:
1. Trust Your Instincts: If you feel like someone is breadcrumbing you, trust your gut. Don't ignore red flags or dismiss your feelings.
2. Set Boundaries: Clearly communicate your expectations and boundaries early on. If someone isn't willing to meet them, it's a sign that they may not be serious about the relationship.
3. Focus on Self-Worth: Remember your worth and value. Don't let someone else's inconsistent behavior define your self-esteem.
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I wasted my 20s on women who breadcrumbed me (this was in the 90s, long before there was a name for this behavior, although if I'm keeping it 💯 I can't say for sure that knowing it would have done me any good).
It was in my 30s, when I finally got into recovery and actually did work on myself that things changed, including my approach to dating. I set boundaries, which ultimately led me to the wonderful woman I married.
We celebrate our 20th anniversary next month.
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What’s more interesting and educational is the difference between breadcrumbing and avoidantly attached people.
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I have experienced this in my past relationship I just didn't understand what the term was or anything about it. If I had this video at my disposal when going through this I would have seen the signs much sooner. My advice to those who are experiencing this don't give in stand your ground because you know what is best for you. You don't need someone that does those signs when there are people out there that won't do this. Hope this helps you if you need it like I did when I went through this with my ex.
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Currently involved with someone who checklists every criteria for a person who'd breadcrumb. As an empath it's highly emotionally draining and hurtful, given the amount of efforts I've given from my side. She's a good person in herself but i don't think getting in a relationship with her would do me any good in the long run. Thanks to you and a little bit of knowledge I've gained of psychology, it allows you to better regulate your emotions and analyse situations from a third person perspective (with minimal biases)
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So what we've known for decades as "mixed feelings" is now a formal term. Got it!!
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On my quest to be the best man I can be, I try to learn all of these so I don't do them. It's super easy to get complacent in relationships.
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Oh, the sweet little crumbs you find are the sparks in the dark of life. You just have to remember that it's just crumbs not the entire cake.You have to be weary of the sweetest little cake crumbs that you follow like a mouse, it may be rat poison that you're enjoying and not knowing... Of these things I know...😔😔
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@Psych2go
1 month ago
Have you ever heard of this term Breadcrumbing before?
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