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#dating #love #relationship
Writer: Dylan Swanepoel
Script Editor: Kelly Soong
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice Over: Brandon / @littleghostyofficialtm
Animator CHEN (New Animator)
Youtube Manager: Cindy Cheong
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Ford, B. Q., Lam, P., John, O. P., & Mauss, I. B. (2018). The psychological health benefits of accepting negative emotions and thoughts: Laboratory, diary, and longitudinal evidence. Journal of personality and social psychology, 115(6), 1075.
Baumeister, R. F., Wotman, S. R., & Stillwell, A. M. (1993). Unrequited love: On heartbreak, anger, guilt, scriptlessness, and humiliation. Journal of personality and social psychology, 64(3), 377.
Kansky, J., & Allen, J. P. (2018). Making Sense and Moving On: The Potential for Individual and Interpersonal Growth Following Emerging Adult Breakups. Emerging Adulthood, 6(3), 172-190. doi.org/10.1177/2167696817711766
Apostolou, M., Keramari, D., Kagialis, A., & Sullman, M. (2021). Why people make friends: The nature of friendship. Personal Relationships, 28(1), 4-18.
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Date of upload: Mar 24, 2024 ^^
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YouTube Comments - 643 Comments
Top Comments of this video!! :3
This notification came when I was crying about the same situation. Jesus Christ.
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I’m actually embarrassed at how fast I clicked on this video 😂
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You were complete before you met them, and you are still complete now that they are gone.🤗
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why is the timing actually perfect 😭😭
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I was in a "relationship" friendship. We did everything together. It hurt my heart when he decides to get married. I kept asking myself why I wasn't enough.
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The worst part about this is that halfway, you decide to give up, cause your efforts seem to be futile, or you just feel like you don't have it in you to do anything. I've made that mistake so many times.....
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AINT NO WAY...they reading my thought's
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Holy shit, it’s insane how relevant this is to me right now. Just yesterday hung out with a girl I’ve been so into that I met nearly a year ago and we’ve been talking a lot since then, and thought she had feelings for me too, only for her to tell me that she was not pursuing a romantic relationship at this point in her life. Granted, she lives currently in another country (even continent) and she doesn’t know if she wants to move yet or where she’ll be in the near future, so it’s understandable why she can’t commit to anything right now. I still like her and we’re still friends, but it is what it is. Sometimes the timing simply isn’t right for one of the two, and we gotta accept that.
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I told her how I felt after ten years and she essentially left me on read in person, but at least I’m glad I did it
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I've always been rejected by every single guy I've liked, after every rejection, I tried to overcame it by working on myself and making myself busy. Now I have a lot of certificates on my wall, 5 languages I can speak quite fluently, tons of hobbies and personal projects, I even traveled abroad as I always wanted. I can say I have accomplished many of my dreams now, all except for finding love hahaha I guess some of us are just not made to be in a relationship after all xP
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I looked at this thinking maybe I haven't moved on yet but this video made me realize I did and just didn't really believe I did. I did just about everything in this video
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I can relate to this big time. There was a girl at my work who I really liked and had a ton in common with. She asked me out first which surprised me. Then I got brave and started asking her out and we ended up doing a bunch of fun things together and we got along really well. I assumed we were just hanging out as friends, but she started calling it dates, so I thought she might have feelings for me too. Then one day, she invites me to lunch only to tell me she has another friend that lives out of state who she has always loved and wants to be with him instead of me.
This made me super depressed and confused. I know she meant me no harm and I’m not mad, but it still hurts. I’ve had a hard time getting over it, but I now realize this kind of thing happens all the time to people and nothing is ever a for sure thing.
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It's a peculiar kind of heartbreak, but the pain is real. This video is like therapy for the unrequited soul.
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Truth be told, I needed this vid, I had someone who I had a chance with, ask me If I loved them, but since I was nervous, introverted due to being bullied, I didn't say anything due to fear of rejection or fear of losing that person as a friend. They moved on, but those thought still get to me after a decade since I still haven't meet anyone new. This vid happened to come on the right time. Thank you.
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Im so flashed actually that I'm not the only one with heartbreak and thats so refreshing ❤
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After rejection it's important to just keep friendly to the one you never got.
Even in my case, (had a crush but was never rejected because I never dared to ask) I figured moving on was the best.
Just if you feel that it won't work out, don't blame them (and you) and keep being just friendly nice with your and her boundaries.
Rejection doesn't mean hating.
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As a person who experienced unexpected situationships several times, I think that distancing yourself from that person will help u to move on. I used to feel angry, low self-esteemed, questioning my self worth a lot when I know the person I had feelings for and thought he feel the same turned out to be wrong. I questioned and blamed myself a lot for how easy I was to fall into someone, I was angry to him and also myself. But when experiencing again and again, I think I feel a bit easier to control and face to this thing. And i just wanna say that u don't have to blame urself or anyone. Also u dont have to put urself on their shoes if at that time u cannot. I think distancing, boundaries and reflection work the most. And just spend time to understand yourself will help u deal with the situation. And loving someone genuinely is precious and shouldn't be taken for granted.
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now this is “for you” page
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@Psych2go
1 month ago
A lot of you requested this topic. Here it is! Let us know what you think. :_PSIBigHeart: If there are other topics, you would like us to cover. Comment below!
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