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Top Comments of this video!! :3
We must avoid narcissistic people by all means.
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I just walked away from the job that has been killing me, which makes me the fourth person to leave since the year started. I can't believe how well I feel. It's like having been deadly ill and suddenly be healthy again
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we're forced to hide and conceal things because we don't want to be vulnerable in front of them.
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Relationship rules (communication, reciprocity, respect, honesty, patience, sympathy) simply don't work in a narcissistic relationships. They can only work if your partner is emotionally healthy. A Narc is the furthest thing away from an emotionally-healthy person. Or a partner, for that matter...
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All you can do save yourself. The army of enablers will blame you for refusing to drink, frantically manufacture another pump handle & refuse to acknowledge the sick as they drop on the ground surrounding the well. "There are none so blind as those who will not see."
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NO CONTACT is taking the âhandle off the well pumpâ â It worked! Thank you Dr. Ramani!
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Brilliant analogy. "People in Narcissistic relationships, for so long , have been told to look inward, be patient, and figure it out; but that was never going to work. Pulling the handle off the pump means that we see the situation clearly, that we stop blaming ourselves, and that we stop engaging in the relationship in the same way, and if we're fortunate, at all. It's taking the world a while to recognize that the toxicity and abuse and aggressiveness of these relationships is in fact a Public Health Crisis."
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It is so sad when showing another unconditional love and support literally damages someone enough to make them sick. Without intervention, the body responds to the stress caused by these relationships. My fiancĂŠ developed a rare autoimmune disease after his narcissistic mother moved in with him. Regardless of how much he does to help her, she continues to harm him, and he continues to try harder. Narcissistic abuse can be tricky to figure out. We have to understand that we aren't the problem and no amount of trying harder for them works for us.
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As an epidemiologist now using health and safety at work ideas to tackle workplace bullying, I love this analogy!
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I refuse to put myself in harms way anymore despite the enablers pressure. Prioritizing my safety and well being. Thank you Dr Ramani â¤
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When I was married to my second husband, a second narcissistic abuser, he actively tried of end me.
One morning at breakfast, he announced (in front of children) âif I ever offed you, and anyone happened to find your remains (they wouldnât, by the way), no judge or jury would ever convict me of homicide - because, in Canada, we have such a thing as âjustifiable homicide,â and it would be found that I was justified in doing that.â
Do you know what the pastors at the local church told me?
Or, the RCMP?
The RCMP said we âneeded marriage counselling.â
The pastors at the Pentecostal church said, âyou just need to teach your husband how to love you, if you want to be a good christian woman.â
It was all on me. I had to do more, be less, submit myself, and not complain.
The physical scars I carry are nothing compared to the emotional ones.
He was never held accountable by the legal system,
I saw him walking downtown the other day, and my literal thought was, âitâs not worth sacrificing my freedom, or my car, to run him over.â
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In Spanish Cholera also means anger or in the case of narcs RAGEâŚwhat a coincidence đ¤đ¤đ¤
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I'm going through this now. No contact will be going into 2.5 weeks. I miss his presence. But not the negative. I find myself thinking back to how many times I've pulled away and gone back to him. I'm sorry are just words with no actions. He never changed and going back to him did not give me my best life. đ˘đ
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I went no contact over a year ago, and life has become brighter. However i find myself missing them from time to time, and need to keep reminding myself all the things that come along with letting this person back into my life.
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Thank you Dr. R. Watching this video brought me to tears and reaffirmed my choice to have no contact with my ex. It is so hard to keep believing that removing access to the source of the contamination is the answer when the world keeps telling us that this course of action is too drastic and cruel.
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In it's simplest view a relationship with a narcissist is a non-reciprocal, transactional, conditional experience for the non-narcissist. Fortified with this knowledge - we didn't cause their narcissism, we aren't at fault for their behaviors now AND they won't change - we can begin moving towards healthy connections. Continue focusing on what we can control - ourselves and our responses.
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Narc is not our friends - your own mental health is at risk!
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another boiling water analogy is the frog one. if a frog is thrown into boiling water it jumps out. if you put the frog in low temp water and slowly bring it to a boil it doesn't sense the danger and it burns alive.
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Wow! Yes Dr. Ramani preach! Stop the contamination at its root.
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@PamelaA.Pearson
1 month ago
After so much struggles I now own a new house and my family is happy once again everything is finally falling into place!!
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