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We can't take our own advice about narcissists because we think we can reason with them. News flash - WE CAN'T! The core of narcissism is unreasonableness.
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Thereâs always the problem of being stuck in survival mode, thinking youâre making the best decision at the time, but having no idea of the reality youâre stepping into as youâre stepping out of another.
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Being involved with a narcissist is an addiction, I suspect. It really wasnât until I COMPLETELY removed myself from any contact at all that I was finally able to see my situation clearly and start my journey of self identity and determination. Best of luck all and big thanks to the courageous Dr. Ramani.
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It is crucial to be very well prepared, when leaving a narcissist. Especially when children are involved. I was shocked how destructive they can act when they know they have lost you.
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Being held hostage financially...while being dominated by severe fibromyalgia pain. My brain can barely function. Btw, I do give great advice and support. I've already literally helped a friend very recently. It actually gives me hope watching her succeed.
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Being in a marriage with a narcissist can be compared to a deck of cards. At first, you just need two hearts and a diamond to start. But as time goes by, you'll find yourself wishing you had a CLUB and a SPADE!
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Thank you,, Dr. Ramani. Just saying â thank you â hardly seems enough. But I truly mean it with my heart.
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Because we are actually going through the trauma so we can't think straight we make up allot of excuse for our partner. When we giving advice to others the danger is clear to us.
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Distance is the best medicine
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Going no contact was one of the hardest things I found
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Easier to dole out advice to others than follow our own when you have narcissists and their flying monkeys team up against you. Worse if you have to live with them. I knew I was in a bad situation. It took me a while to develop the courage to cut them off. My advice to victims is to be easy with yourselves. You don't deserve the abuse you are forced to endure. Their scars are not your wounds nor should they be.
As for the enablers, be supportive and kind towards those you know in a toxic relationship. Help them out.
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When dealing with narcissism, you should know that itâs not personal. âIt isnât personalâ is one of those cliches used to cushion all kinds of bad actions taken by people who need an out for being immoral, but in this case it actually gets near the truth. Narcissists donât know how to love or be a friend; they canât afford to spare the energy to learn, because theyâre always in a state of high emergency, cataloging potential threats and redoubling their defenses. When they claim to love you, it means nothing. They may even think they mean it, but they donât understand the concept - they canât feel it. They never attach to you or anyone else. Other people are paper cut-outs to the narcissist, like those cardboard figures of celebrities you pose next to for a selfie. Narcissist value their own children only as mirrors of themselves. When they destabilize you or attack you, it means nothing. They are stuck in an endless conversation with themselves, in which you are an inanimate object, to be assigned their own faults and used as a surrogate punching bag for their hatred of themselves. When they toss you out, itâs no more meaningful than a junkie tossing away a needle; when they try to reel you back in, it only means that they tired of the new drug and need a hit of the old. None of this is personal. Theyâre too terrified to have personal relationships, opting instead for extraction of admiration from a subservient partner whose range of action they strictly constrain. This is not personal. None of it. The narcissist does not know who you are - it doesnât know how to know other people. Like the vampire or the chainsaw-wielding creature in the horror film, itâs from another world, bereft of the concept of human connection. Moreover, People wonder why they end up hurt, seriously hurt, and even killed for their own actions. Cheating is a choice and thereâs simply a lot of ignorance in the process.... Thank you so much for helping me out Metaspyhub@gmail. com. Your advice and services helped me so much. You are a lifesaver !!! The information you gave me about my cheating partner when you gave me access to his phone was everything I needed to get,.. thank you very much..
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michael crichton ssys that even tho humans are one of the few ecies that csn see themselves in a mirror we stil cant see ourselves psychologiclly.
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Having real time experience of this is completely different thing . Taking our own advice may work after we heal from these relationships
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Such timely advice! I am currently going through this and need to remember to give myself some compassion and get to work on my stuckness!
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The narcissists had me admitted into a mental facility against my will , yes i wasn't in the best of place bc i was just wrapping my head around the fact that i was in a narcissistic relationship and the narcissists took advantage of that to have me admitted ,i just got out the day b4 yesterday and they have me taking drugs that i don't want to take , these drugs makes me sleepy and uncomfortable, although they might have their advantages these drugs also have disadvantages and these disadvantages also has to be taken into account..
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Well, it's like a lot of things. We all know what we SHOULD be doing with the diet and exercise. Actually doing it, rather than talking about it, is a good deal harder.
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You make so much sense, I just wish more people could think like you.
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Thank you for compassionate advice. I would never in a million years talk to another person the way I talk to myself...
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@Just_a_Nobody00
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Dealing with narcissists is like being inside a maze with no exit. Itâs like you think youâve finally found a way out, until you realize theyâre a step ahead of you finding a new creative way to trap you in.
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