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Top Comments of this video!! :3
The really heartbreaking part about leaving a narc is when you realise the person you fell head over heals in love with was nothing more than a carefully and very deliberately constructed illusion. That's what really hurts; not that they've gone, but that they never really existed in the first place.
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Feels like your best friend fooled you and became your worst enemy! Hurts like hell!
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Every now and then I come back to these videos just to let people know that it does get easier, and it does get better.
They will stop living rent-free in your head.
You will heal, grow and move on.
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The saddest part is still wanting them back after the devaluation and hurt.
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We're just useful objects to them. The day you're no longer useful they'll discard you without a thought. Heartbreak is inevitable.
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32 years in that f***ed up life!! Getting cheated on over and over again and me thinking what am I doing wrong and now I know Iām done!!! NO more!!!!
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It hurts because you are used like a toy. You think it's love, but to the narc it's just a game to keep you strung along feeding you false rays of hope, and then finally they throw you away like a piece of garbage.
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I remember standing in the supermarket and feeling completely lost because I was still thinking about buying food he wanted to eat. I couldn't remember what I liked to eat, because he had convinced me the food I enjoyed was "disgusting".
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The gaslight is the worst part. Crazy and destabilise are the right words.
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What is so bad is that they don't just dump you, they dump you with no closure! Then they keep coming back into the picture!
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It is definitely not a ānormalā break up. Itās the betrayal mixed in with beating yourself up for not realizing the person was lying all along.
It took me a long time to forgive myself.
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And when things don't go their way... It's heart breaking how they yell at
you when it ain't your fault that their endeavors didn't go the way they had
hoped. Or when you don't fall for the bait and switch. Believe in your observations.
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I feel abandoned, betrayed,un validated,I am obsessed w bitterness
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When you realize that the person, 50 years on, is the same one you should have moved on from way back then. Fifty years is a lot of life to spend in a less than ideal environment. Makes me feel like a gullible fool. Thank you, Dr. Ramani, for the wisdom you have provided. Itās been a lifeline and you have my extreme gratitude.
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The worst part of my ongoing brake up is the almost unbearable shame of what I allowed to be done to me and the self disgust at the person I became at the end... Reactive, manic, depressed, destructive and unhinged... Add losing my health, my figure, my best job, my house, hurting all my relationships, and ended in a financial hole. (It took only four years for this damage).
Narcissist are dangerous and I am thankful for the community that help us to survive.
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Its realising, trauma bond, love bombed, devalue discard. Like, a parachute failed and a heart crashed miles like a explosive catastrophic shatters of soul
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Quick tip for people enduring this in small towns: People who haven't expressed any empathy for you are probably convinced YOU are the problem.
And many of them won't change, because they were gaslit about you a looong time ago.
Face this reality and choose your words carefully. Or move and make better friends.
Good luck with your journey
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The āheartbreakā of narcissistic abuse or the relationships ending feels more like a trauma and a psychological mess for sure made worse by the enablers. Wish more people would understand. Grateful for this community. Keeping myself stable and not sacrificing myself. Thank you Dr Ramani ā¤
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Another crazymaking comment for me is "Maybe you just aren't compatible."
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@youngblood8540
2 months ago
It's the cruelest thing to do, to tell someone you love them and then slowly destroying them everyday until they lose their minds.
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