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Genre: People & Blogs
Date of upload: Oct 14, 2021 ^^
Rating : 4.989 (7/2,647 LTDR)
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Top Comments of this video!! :3
It’s odd. I can remember only being empathic towards other people, and genuinely feeling bad for them. Now instead of empathy i feel apathy, even tho i try to care, i just can’t. I can’t even feel empathy for myself. I don’t mean to be apathetic i really do want to care, but it feels like i can’t.
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It’s strange that I feel empathy when it comes to characters from various novels, anime and etc, but never towards real people, even the closest ones. If I watch a film with real cast of people I’d feel nothing, but if some comics have the exact same plot, if it’s good written, I might get affected pretty heavily. Why so…
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As long as I can remember from when I was a little kid, I couldn’t feel bad or empathy for any other person. It didn’t matter who it was, friends or family or strangers.
I need to know how can one feel bad for another. I’ve always been called “selfish” or “ignorant” for this feeling. I want help, how do I get help?
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Random rant:
If I heard a rumor about myself anywhere, job, family, or school. I'll be interested as heck, had negativity thrown in front of me but never behind me. So I want to know what they're saying about and laugh about it later. Because I don't even know them or had a brief conversation with them. It's like facing a troll and what they're doing is laughable.
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When I was a child, I've always been an observer my whole life. Whenever people are crying, people often comfort them. And I've always wondered, why not me? Because every time that I cry, no one has ever comforted me. I was the one feeling empathy/sympathy, not them. I got fed up of everything and not a single trace of care is left in my body, only apathy. So now, I'm just a big ball of emotions, I don't know what I feel or what I should feel. Whenever everyone is crying because of something sad, I just can't feel the same way, or when my mom tells me that she loves me, I just can't help but find the love or what part of me makes her love me and I'm still wondering why.
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I'm here to let everyone who relates to this title that you aren't broken, you aren't evil. Evil is in action and intention, you are only doing evil if you are hurting others (which you might not know you are doing, and that's ok.) When you do know in some way how someone is feeling just try to help them, be comforting when they say they hurt, and you have done something good and benevolent.
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So from my understanding, empathy means literally feeling what another person is feeling, right? Even if the same thing happening to them hasn't and isn't happening to you? How does that even work? How do you feel the exact same thing as another person just by talking to or looking at them? I think I can feel sympathy sometimes, and I can give the expected or appropriate response when someone is struggling. But I don't feel anything, myself. I don't even feel bad for not feeling anything. If someone around me is upset, I might try to help if there's a way I can, but otherwise I just kinda sit there and watch. Maybe that's why people don't really go to me for comfort lol
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Ever since I was young I could never understand how people felt bad for others. I've never been able to, I mean I understand it on a technical level but that's it. I always pretend to and it usually works, but for example when people cry in front of me I don't know how to respond because I don't feel it. Idk it's just how I am and I'm ok with that. That's all thx for really this I guess.
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@haru-gr4op
2 years ago
¡ TIMESTAMPS ! ✨ 00:00 || 00:01 – Haunt Me ( x3 ) – Teen Suicide. ✨ 02:27 – Unfair – The Neighbourhood. ✨ 04:55 – Kimi Wa Dekinai Ko (You're A Useless Child) – Kikuo. ✨ 09:15 – XxX Cat – Kikuo. ✨ 12:42 – Egoist/Flower – Onuma Paseri. ✨ 16:19 – Wisdom – Mother Mother. ✨ 19:48 – Ghosting – Mother Mother. ✨ 24:32 – Dead Weight – Jack Stauber. ✨ 27:40 – Help_Urself – Ezekiel. ✨ 29:53 – Afraid – The Neighbourhood. ✨ 34:03 – Uhhhhhh – Framed. ✨ 36:52 – Feel Something – Bea Miller.
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