Views : 399,124
Genre: Education
Date of upload: Jun 11, 2023 ^^
Rating : 4.971 (223/30,708 LTDR)
RYD date created : 2024-04-30T19:36:35.074333Z
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KEY POINTS:
00:00 - What about our own RED FLAGS?
03:08 - Avoidant Attachment (The importance of communicating with people. How does your relationship with your mother affect you? The ability to feel for others)
05:00 - Negative Self Talk (Self-destruction due to disbelief in oneself. Practise mindfulness)
05:48 - Big Ego (Show respect, no matter how far ahead you are. Humble yourself)
06:50 - Perfectionism (is PATHETIC. It ruins relationships. It stops you from taking risks. It leaves you UNHAPPY)
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Being self-critical (perfectionist) has always been one of my biggest Achilles Heels due to always feeling like I have to proof myself. Growing up, I used to get teased and called “retarded” because I have a speech impediment. As a result, this made me more self-conscious and determined to trying to be perfect in everything I do.
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Finally, i found myself!
I've been into the self improvement journey for over a year now, and I discovered that I've been doing it for the wrong reason: to make people regret not giving me attention.
And I now know why I've been doing it for that reason. It's because I was bullied when I was 7years old, and I had a teeth accident when I was 13. These two traumas changed me to a people pleasing person, placing my worth on people's opinions.
But now, I love myself. I'll become better for ME.
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Avoided Attachment is a Red Flag of mine, but I can proudly say that I am making progress by asking good friends of mine to meet-up. One another thing though. I myself also hurt a lot of people in my past, no matter If physically or mentally and I also have changed that about myself. Those people around me that I hurt, did also hurt me and I had to defend myself. However I did feel pleasure from this and I was proud of it and that is not something anyone should be proud of. Even my own Trauma got to the point with a diagnose of PTSD apparently. This channel is cool and I can see a lot of fellows that recognize the reality.
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@TeZeEMo92
11 months ago
"We are FarFromWeak" 🤝
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