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53,023 Views • Apr 14, 2024 • Click to toggle off description
#mindset #personalgrowth
Writer: Ananya Sawarkar
Script Editor: Denise Ding
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice: Amanda Silvera youtube.com/amandasilvera
Animator: L444
Disclaimer: This video is for informational and observational purposes only. It is also partially based on subjective opinion. Should you feel that there is a sign of a deeper or more serious problem, please do not hesitate to reach out to a professional
REFERENCES: psych2go.net/signs-someones-not-mentally-strong-just-acting-tough/
Views : 53,023
Genre: Education
Date of upload: Apr 14, 2024 ^^
Rating : 4.962 (33/3,414 LTDR)
RYD date created : 2024-05-06T06:50:06.468319Z
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Top Comments of this video!! :3
People can put up a “tough” facade but they could really be vulnerable inside. It often takes time and deeper conversations to understand someone’s true mental state.
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Strength is being aware of your emotions and then processing them. Not hiding them or running away
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A lot of my problems would end up upsetting other people if I talked about them so I just pretend my job is the only thing that bothers me
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"Life is a painful disease, and death is the bitter medicine."
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I saw Akito from Fruits basket I had to watch. Fruits basket is such a good show for showing all signs of abuse and dealing with it. I know it's just a show, but it helped me get through some hard times when I was at rock bottom. Thank you♡
Also I loved the Roy Mustang scene♡
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I can tell these insecurities from my host mom who used to potrait herself as very strong and competent - which to her credit she actually is - but one time in the evening when I came down stairs, she cried as much as I would never imagined from that person.
That was really game changing and insightful for anything that came afterwards.
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Yes, I see this in several people that I’m, unfortunately, related to. Have been distancing from them the last few years and my life is much better, more peaceful. Trying to surround myself with authentic people even if it’s only a few. Thanks for this video! Your description and explanation of the concept is simple, easy to follow. That’s the most effective to get the message to stick.
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The point about controlling is a very good one. One thing a very controlling and insecure person will do is give people patronising, derogatory nick names without their permission and then refer to them by this nickname as they breezily put them down. They want everyone to be defined by the language they dish out to them.
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I was that "happy" person and in actuality... I was acting happy all the time even during traumatic events because it was the only thing keeping me going, especially at times when I was surrounded by a lot of people who were waiting and willing to watch me fall with delight. However, I did eventually fall apart emotionally and mentally. I ended up having nervous breakdowns, and it did eventually make me emotionally hurt in turmoil. It helped for the short term and kept me going in the long run, unfortunately... It gave other people the wrong impression of me and didn't allow me to properly cope, have closure, and heal from it. I ended up paying for it when I was left behind by everyone I knew. I felt like I was shared in a million pieces and unable to be pieced together because I started to care less about everything and everyone at that point and time. I had tried to pick up all of the pieces only just to find myself falling apart.
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I think some people deal with negative emotions internally and try to always be strong socially. Sometimes, it's not about faking emotions and not letting others see the problems, but dealing with it personally or with particular individuals rather than letting it be your mood the whole time while dealing with the pain.
People that are used to strongly negative emotions often have a sturdier level of emotional regulation. They bounce back, and move on quicker due to being used to accepting loss and enduring pain. Desensitisation and loss of touch with reality could be argued, but I think this happens only if you are unable to come to terms with and work through the problems adequately. Or if you feel that the losses made you lose your sense of control and agency over your own circumstances, and responsibility for your future.
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Amanda is back whooop
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This is such a great video. It’s impossible to be “tough” all the time. Strength comes from slowly going through each step, sometimes pain, until they are strong enough to not hurt from things that would have hurt before. Everyone has insecurities or doubts, but the strong know that this doesn’t define them and they can always improve 🙂
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This was how I was for the longest time then I finally got help now I am mentally strong and it's great to hear your voice again Amanda i missed you
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Thanks for helping us with these videos
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After a bad breakup in 2019, I vowed to change myself. From that point on my way of life became rolling with the punches, enjoying what I do and being myself no matter what others think of it. It's still a work in progress and there's still plenty to learn, and this video reinforces to me that I chose the right path.
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Lol Akito is such a accurate character for this.
Azumanga cat! 😂
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Timestamps
1). Their self worth depends purely on what others think of them 0:46
2). They think they can do anything 1:56
3). Hidden or denied insecurities 3:09
4). Their expressions are usually a put-on 4:13
5). They try to control others 5:38
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙
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This is reliable to me, I'd try mentally strong but those negative thoughts are still there
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@riley_e-d_mettle4778
3 weeks ago
One does not cry because they are weak. It’s because they’ve been strong for too long.
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