Views : 1,385,460
Genre: Education
Date of upload: Dec 22, 2020 ^^
Rating : 4.954 (638/54,463 LTDR)
RYD date created : 2022-04-09T19:44:35.177689Z
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As a mom, I just want to say that I am so sorry to any child that has had to grow up like this. If you are reading this, and you have parents like this, I am so sorry. Parents are supposed to be a safe place for children. I wish that I could take every child in that needs it. Big mama hug, and lots of prayers.
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I will never forgot how I told my mom that the way she treats me makes me feel like I donāt want to live anymore, and she told me āyou think I want to live with a daughter who treats me the way you do?ā
Itās always about her. Iām thankfully no longer in that headspace, but she definitely exhibits all of the things in this video. Thank you for opening my eyes.
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Moms: Belittle you, mock you, invalidate your emotions, play the victim when you criticize her, make any problem about her, yell at you, antagonize you, create a hostile environment for any sort of discussion to happen because you constantly feel like you're in a debate, having to justify every little thing you say or emotion you feel
Also moms: Why don't you ever talk to me about your problems? š„ŗš„ŗš„ŗI'm your mother, it feels like you're pushing me away š„ŗš„ŗš„ŗ
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I also want to mention āIām sorry Iām such a bad motherā thatās a phrase Iām very familiar with. Itās a guilt trip, trying to invalidate your feelings and concerns because narcissistic parents canāt bear having the fault being put on them so instead they put it on you. I hope everyone is doing ok, stay safe ā¤ļø
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One time, my biological mother who is DEFINITELY a narcissist said, "Someone else gets all the credit, yet I get treated like shit". It's always about her. All the while, she's throwing objects at me, raising her fist to me, threatening to punch me in the face or throat, lying to me, gaslighting me, etc. She paints herself as the victim when in reality I was the actual victim.
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My mother is a narcissist. She is jealous of me. And everything she says is negative 80% of the time. Even if you say something about something she did that's a fact she'll get mad and not want to hear her own actions. If she is in a bad mood she will take it out on you. She always hops in when me and my siblings are conversing. It's so sad. Like sometimes I don't understand why God let her be my parent.
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@iu479
3 years ago
10 signs you have a narcissistic mother(short): 1) She sees her children as her trophy or her pawn 1:36 2) She likes to keep control 2:33 3) She uses manipulation to get what she wants 2:56 4) Her love is conditional rather than unconditional 3:23 5) She often diverts the conversation to focus on herself 3:54 6) She lacks empathy 4:14 7) She is unpredictable 4:44 8) She carries grudges 5:05 9) She is emotionally volatile 5:33 10) She will never want to let you go 5:51 āØHope you enjoyed video and i wish everything be good in your livesāØ
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