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Genre: Education
Date of upload: Premiered Nov 1, 2022 ^^
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I have to say, when I was a child, I remember looking at my mom and thinking something wasn't right with the way she treated me. I was awake at a young age, but I felt the guilt and blamed myself for everything. I tried to succeed just so my mom would be proud of me. It was never enough. At 43, one day I just had enough, and I just stopped. I haven't seen my mom and dad in 7 years. I miss them terrible, but I don't suffer everyday anymore. I know she will never work with me, so I gave up. I raised a son who is now 17 and I changed everything for him and he's a senior in high school, kind, loving, respectful, and has wonderful self esteem. I succeeded because I was self aware at such a young age. I thank God everyday for that wisdom so young. Good luck all narcissistic daughters. I'm very sad I will never get a sorry but I'm working through not regretting my choice and lack of her love.
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my mom was a narcissist but i gave it right back to her. she was critical, nasty condescending and Jealous. Everytime she said something hurtful I just gave it back to her and mimicked her. I know she was jealous of me because years ago I was a newspaper reporter and actually had a job in my hometown and my relatives and friends were acknowledge me to her and she blew a gasket. So everytime I saw her I wore my press cards. When she said I was showing off I said "right back at you" when she gave me the silent treatment I did it to her. This is not easy but she stopped and she doesn't bother with that much and honestly it is difficult but I stood my ground and made my own life. I don't care if your mother is 50 90 or 190 they will never change. She said when I was born she told me she didn't want me so I told her I didn''t want her and stuck to my guns. When you are a punching bag learn to punch back.
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It has been remarkably freeing to have had no contact with my mother since June. No drama, no manipulation, no guilt, shame, blame, insults, tearful outbursts, “poor me” martyr stories, no more gaslighting. Life has been peaceful, predictable and reflective of what I want to experience each day.
My mother’s life choices and struggles with the need to manipulate and control others reflect her unhealed self. I released her with love.
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I saved my mothers life when I was three.
She passed out and was bleeding out from a bad abortion.
I ran to the neighbors an they got her help.
I am an only child.
She abused me physically and mentally till my father died and
I went no contact with her. I was 57.
I was the best thing I ever did !
Heal yourself and your children by leaving the narcissist as soon as
you can !
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I finally realized that I had to cut all ties to my mother in order to be healthy in mind and body. After me trying so hard once again to be the daughter she wanted me to be, she did the exact same thing she has always done - hurt me deeply and acted like it was no big deal and that I should not be upset. It is very difficult to be raised by a selfish, self-serving, narcissist. I have finally given myself permission to not care and not try anymore. It has been so freeing! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
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@donnapetty6719
1 year ago
Yes, I absolutely needed sent here. It's like you know me and your talking to me about my life. My abandonment issues destroy every relationship in my life.
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