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One of the hardest things in life to do is grieve somebody who is still alive. It is a pain that is indescribable.
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I am estranged from my 39 yo daughter and my grandson.I am leaving it in God’s hands. She is not going to destroy me.
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As a 59 year old male, all I can say is that cutting contact with my toxic family for 20 years has allowed me to heal.
I wouldn't change, nor regret that decision as long as I live.
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The fact she buys herself a birthday gift for her daughter's birthday is a big red flag. Red flags everywhere actually
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My mother is telling everyone she doesn't know why i haven't spoken to her in 10 years. Maybe it's because she beat the shit out me every day complete with black eyes, busted lips, whelps from extension cords and a lot worse. I'm 55 and on meds and still have flashbacks. I'd love to hear from the daughter.
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If we could ask your daughter about why she pulled away from you, what do you think she would say? It’s an important question.
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Being related by blood does NOT MEAN we must endure BS from relatives. I haven’t spoken to my sister in 24 years.
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It's not about YOU! Every avenue you talk about seems to come back to you and your defense of your parenting. I'm sure you'll always love her but sometimes hurt needs to be listened to...and completely. Just hush and listen! Validate the other person instead of seeking YOUR validation!
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Daughter here, I personally had to cut toxic adults out of my life who abused and manipulated and used me as a child. No regrets. I chose peace as an adult. My mother treated me like she didn’t want me around, called me names, bullied me. Would belittle me in front of family memebers and her friends. Would make me sit outside in the cold for hours one day a neighbor confronted her about that. Made me fold clothes over and over and then destroy what I folded and made me fold again. Isolated me. The list goes on. She was my first bully and I knew at 6 she’s not somebody I could go to for protection.
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You may love her forever but you wont truly listen to her forever and THAT is why she stopped talking to you. At some point in your relationship, your ears got smaller and your mouth got bigger.
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The fact that she sent self improvement videos to her as if it was the daughter’ problem really shows who she is as a person and who she blames for the consequences
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This video is highly suspect. What does ssys might be true but it also might be true that this woman is a narcissistic attention lover. It took a lot of time to produce a video like this. The crying and carrying on in a public setting scream out that she may be doing this for attention and is obsessive with feeling sorry for herself.....but then takes it one step further needing others to feel sorry for her as well. All under the guise of trying to help others. Her virtue must shine to the world and she makes sure it does.
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I’m estranged from my 26 year old daughter as of September 1, 2023. My daughter stopped speaking to me and had a baby, my third grandchild from her and she never told me. I didn’t know she had a problem with me. So, I have since stepped back and let her have her space with her new family. I initially had a meltdown and cried for days. I’m taking one day at a time. I do pray for her daily. I pray for myself as well.
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Really an outburst? That's how you're framing your child feeling deep hurt to the point of not wanting you in her life. She unfriended people who have the same political beliefs so that's obviously not just that. Also you seem so focused on her as a baby but your children are so much more than 2 or 3 years of their life. Oh you put resources into your child you chose to have? What a SACRIFICE.
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I explained multiple times to a loved one how their behaviors hurt me but I got labeled too sensitive. When I pulled away, this person acted confused and hurt. Sometimes a parent gets confused when their kid truly did spell it out for them. If only they cared and listened.
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Not trying to be mean, the daughter said she felt constantly guilted. This video feels like a guilt trip.
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I have no Idea why this came up,I've never searched this but I have been estranged from both my daughters for over 4 years now. I didn't need to sit here and bawl for 16 minutes and 57 seconds. I thought I was okay today. I'm right here with you my friend. Thank you for reminding me that I am not alone. Peace
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interesting vid. I will say this as a 55 yr old adult who had to cut my mother off for several years when I was in my 30s and 40s. Adult children dont cut you out of their lives for no reason. Two sides to every story however. Children dont typically walk away from "great or loving" parents.
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Ok, but what did you REALLY do to make your daughter orphan herself?
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