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If this video sounds like someone you know but you're not too sure if they are a narcissist, we've got you covered as well! Here's our previous video on the signs someone is a narcissist:    â˘Â 9 Signs Someone is a Narcissist Â
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One thing I've noticed about narcissists is that they think everyone around them is a narcissist.
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from my observation, narcissists dislikes confident people because they aren't 'controlable'
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Just escaped a narcissist that had me in her grasp for 7 years. Videos like this really help validate and understand things more clearly. Thank you for making videos like this, seriously
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Narcissists do the opposite of what is right. Thatâs what makes them so cruel. If theyâre capable of crazy-making and gaslighting you to get their way, if theyâre capable of giving you the silent treatment knowing youâre in pain and looking for answers, if theyâre capable of destroying your reputation by starting a smear campaign and if theyâre capable of triangulating you with their flying monkeys so they can humiliate youâŚthen why in the world wouldnât they be capable of something like cheating? Narcissists are entitled. Narcissists lack empathy. Narcissists are delusional enough to justify their actions. They have all of the ingredients for being a cheater. Theyâre known for cruel and devastating discards, but somehow they would stop at cheating on you because they have morals and just couldnât go through with it? No one can truly believe that. The narcissist believes heâs so slick that the other personâs name will actually come up in conversations, if youâre paying attention. But the narcissist will mention them with disgust, as if he wants nothing to do with them. âI canât stand working with Karen. She annoys me everyday and I canât believe the things she wears sometimes.â Itâs a test to see how you respond to this name coming up periodically. Itâs also a way for the narcissist to gain some sadistic glee because they can talk about the other person with you while youâre not yet aware of this personâs role in their life. When they drop the bomb on your head and the realization hits that theyâre leaving you for âthat Karenâ theyâll be overjoyed. If youâre with a narcissist you should be prepared for the push and pull, the other women or men popping up or even outside children. They canât even be trusted to show up to an event on time. They certainly canât be trusted with your heart. Additionally, Cheating in marriages is not restricted to only men. Women cheat as much as men do. If you're suspecting your wife of infidelity, you'll have to keep an eye on her of her without her knowledge of her. One of the best ways to know if your spouse cheats on social platforms is by paying close attention to how your spouse behaves while online. The signs are pretty the same. Is your spouse more time on the app without explanation and gets unnecessarily defensive when you ask about it? If your spouse behavior has changed lately, and continues to spend more time on social apps, it's time for you to take action, with the help of a private investigator (suggested; METASPYHUB@GMAIL. COM , you can find out what is taking all their time on social apps, who they are talking to and other things happening,,
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Let's not forget that "I miss you" means "I miss controlling you," and "You've changed" means "You're not letting me control you anymore." EDIT: Obviously I am not talking about people in normal, healthy relationships. This applies to abusers. Given the nature of this video, I didn't think that needed to be stated outright.
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I'm sorry for everyone who's been in a relationship with a narcissist person
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Guard your heart above all else.
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One thing I'll advise anyone is to. "Never let a narcissist offer you some help. Because is usually a TRAP, and how they get to control and boss you around. And at the end of the day when you're eventually sick and tired of all their rules and bullying,and finally choose to stand up for yourself,and start telling them how you really feel about how they've been treating u.Then they'd start calling you UNGRATEFUL." And some might even try to hurt you, due to the anger they've got inside of them cuz of this courageous-act you just did.
Majority of them are usually like this. So be careful guys!
P.S -Just saying based on my experiences with a couple of them.
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If you're wondering "am I a narcissist?", you most probably aren't. Real narcissists (usually) won't even wonder if they are the problem
EDIT: "you most probably aren't" doesn't mean "you never are".
DISCLAIMER: if you're still in doubt, look for professional help, just like the channel reccomends
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Coming out of a 7 year narcissistic abusive relationship was the best thing that ever happened to me... too many of those phrases ring true đ
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My dad shows a lot of narcissistic traits. Thankfully, my mum is starting to see it now and has started standing up for herself and not taking his crap any more
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I lost my bestfriend of many years because of my narcissistic behaviour. She is the most gentle kindest person on earth and I lost her because of my toxic personality: I put her down, made her feel insecure, took advantage of her kindness and I will never forgive myself for that. She figured it out and not long after I did too. I just wanna say, take a step back and reflect on your actions, maybe itâs because of your bad childhood but you can help yourself. Iâve learned from my mistake and if you are reading this Melissa, you did a good thing by walking away from me, Iâm sorry.
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Once you see a narcissist clearly. Every narcissist you meet from then on sticks out like a sore thumb.
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as the child of an abusive narcissist, I also love the "Are you calling me a liar"
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It should be noted, "Not everything is about you" is often said TO the Narcissist by one of their intended targets.
This does not mean we have uncovered a second Narcissist.
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My âbest friendâ did all of these things....
I had low self esteem because of them and ended up blaming myself for all that happened
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Might be a narcissist:
1. looks for validation alot
2. isolate you from others
3. say you're overreacting
4. "not everything is about you"
5. "nobody likes you"
6. "I help you, you owe me"
7. "you can't do it without me"
8. "don't let it go to your head."
9. "I'm the best you'll ever have"
10. "I'm only doing this cause I love you."
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I've known several narcissists. One was an ultra-narcissist. They are impossible to deal with. The one thing they all have in common is enablers. People that worship them and promote them to others. One subordinate of mine actually said "Just follow my direction. I can't think of a time when I was wrong."
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Holy crap. My ex wife would tell me that it amazed her how I never noticed that my friends couldn't stand being around me. Not all of them, but looking back, she focused on the ones who were most likely to have the time to check in on me.
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@janedoe133
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My cat came to mind, đłbut sheâs forgiven. đť
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