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LYRICS
They’re always charismatic
And they’ll turn up the charm
Their words do something magic
Saying no is really hard
They’re over generous you’ll never pay the bills
They’ll fall in love seconds die for you or probably kill
Ooooo
And after 6 months you’ll feel really stupid
Oooooo
I promise that it’s not your fault you fell for it
One little fight breaks into war
Feels like you’re dying on a bathroom floor
You’ll make an excuse they’ll say that it’s you
And the mirrors telling you it’s true
Won’t leave, can’t stay, how much are you gonna take
Cuz you’ll always get the blame
It feels like shit but that’s just how it is
When you love a narcissist
So if you’re feeling crazy I wouldn’t be surprised
The only thing they’re good at is knowing how to gaslight
Then make you feel like you’re the most beautiful in the world
While their sleeping with another girl
Ooooo
And after 6 months you’ll feel really stupid
Oooooo
I promise that it’s not your fault you fell for it
One little fight breaks into war
Feels like you’re dying on a bathroom floor
You’ll make an excuse they’ll say that it’s you
And the mirrors telling you it’s true
Wont leave, can’t stay, how much are you gonna take
Cuz you’ll always get the blame
It feels like shit but that’s just how it is
Oooooo
Oooooo
Cuz I felt like shit so I know how it is
When you love a narcissist
Music video by Lauren Spencer Smith performing Narcissist. © 2022 Three Name Productions, Inc., under exclusive license to Island Records & Republic Records, divisions of UMG Recordings, Inc.
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Views : 6,254,644
Genre: Music
Date of upload: Premiered Jul 28, 2022 ^^
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Top Comments of this video!! :3
Narcissists are a different breed and no one will ever understand what you go through until they unfortunately experience it themselves. Thank you for this beautiful song.
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“Won’t leave , can’t stay” hits so hard . I’m in it right now 😔
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To those who haven't met a narcissist, I hope you don't meet one. It takes tears (a lot of tears) fighting for these types of people. Thank you Lauren for this song. It made me feel like someone is telling my story.
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Narcissists will fake you out with the deepest love you have ever known and then turn that love into the deepest and longest lasting scar you will ever have. They are love terrorists. I cry every time I hear this song. 8 years in. Now I’m 4 years out and partially healed. But this song pulls at the parts that haven’t healed yet.
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I can totally relate to the song and I am so sorry for anybody who has ever dealt with a narcissist. Great job Lauren really wonderful song.
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This song has helped me through so much!! Thank you for this MASTERIECE!!
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I think I can speak for every woman who's ever been in a relationship with a narcissist that you hit the nail on the head with this song. It probably is churning the hearts of so many of my beautiful sisters on earth listening to this I know mines is. The song is beautiful. May we all find healing from the hands of a narcissist, may we all learn to trust again, may we all allow love back into our lives and allow ourselves to be vulnerable to the right man that is willing to show his authentic self and be open to love & reciprocity! ❤️
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"One little fight, breaks into war... feels like you're dying on the bathroom floor" Dang that hit hard-
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I survived two narcassists. I am proud of anyone who gets the courage to get up and leave.. much love 🥰🥰
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I survived 6 years with a narcissist. Leaving is hard when you’re sucked in emotionally and financially. It took me a long time to fight my way out. But I am finally free. I’m doing my own thing and I enjoy every moment of my life now. I reminisce on how good he used to be and I can’t let that part of him over look the terrible parts of him. For anyone still stuck, there is a way out. Do not give up or give in to their abuse. You are worthy and deserve more than this type of person. “It’s not your fault you fell for it” ❤️
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This song really cuts deep, really really deep. My kids and I just escaped my narcissistic husband after almost seven years of being together. What hurts the most is the love I still have for him, after everything. Thank you for this song, I need it to keep me strong and remind me that we are better without him. No one understands the charm and trauma of being in a relationship with a narcissist until they unfortunately suffer through it. Words could never explain the pain and suffering that my children and I have endured from his doing.
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This is next level, I’m so happy for you! Repeat, “I promise it’s not your fault you fell for it” those words hit..
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I didn’t even realize he was a narcissist until I was over him for good. Like how did I miss all those signs they were right in front of me. I am so thankful for your music.
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All of your comments are so heartbreaking to read but to know I’m not alone is an amazing feeling and I’m glad we are all out 🥰
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Loving a narcissist will kill you inside. You become their victim and they are a predator. We keep coming back for more because you really do love them and they only love themselves. Thank you for this amazing song Lauren Spencer Smith!
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I’m sitting here my heart is pounding reading these comments and listening to this song. I’m gathering the strength to leave & it’s so Incredibly and confusing doing this. It gives me a lot of anxiety but I know myself and my children will be happier. I hope to find this comment in a year & be able to update it and say “I finally won” 💜
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her voice gives me literal goosebumps, the amount of control she has over her voice is amazing!
edit: y'all need to chill out on the autotune comments, I was just complimenting her. obviously I know that she uses some autotune, but almost every singer does. That doesnt mean they have no talent.
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Yes. HONEY. I'm a forty five year old mom over here, and will never forget the relationship I had to fight to get out out of, like my life depended on it. You never forget. And you might even forgive them. And it helps you understand if a friend is going through it. Get therapy, heal from it, then you'll have a super power and can tell it from a mile away! Thank you for creating this song.
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“Won’t leave can’t stay, how much more you gonna take?” Those words struck me so bad. I remember waking up in the middle of the night, crying, thinking about suicide bc I thought death was the only “honest” way out of that marriage. I felt like if I left I’d fail and be “like the others” from his bio dad walking out when her was three to his first wife walking out on him
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Every single word is 100% true unfortunately. You only truly know how hard this hits if you’ve with a narcissist. Thank you for this beautiful song. It means so much to those who can relate!
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@ellab605
1 year ago
It's like having your identity broken into pieces and having to relearn your own reality again. The most soul shaking experience.
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