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Date of upload: Dec 13, 2023 ^^
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Traits that predict chronic illness: 1. Automatic concern for other people's (emotional) needs above our own; 2. A rigid identification with duty, role and responsibility; 3. Repressed (or suppresed) healthy anger; 4. Two fatal (self-limiting) beliefs: 4.a. Responsibility for other people's emotions; 4.b. "I must not dissapoint anyone".
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I had a five-year older sister who was/is a textbook female psychopath.
My dad advised me to "never react. That's what she wants. Don't give it to her."
I learned to stuff all feelings down, very deep, from a very young age.
I was a practicing alcoholic for 45 years.
A month before my 60th birthday I had my last drink.
I went to AA. I couldn't get into traditional Christianity.
I found Zen Master Thich Nhat Hahn videos on YouTube.
I passed 5 years sober and clean last September.
Life is far from perfect, but I'm learning, every day, to deal with it in better ways.
One of the little gems from early days in sobriety that I always remember is, "It's not about how life is treating you, it's all about how you're treating life."😉🙏💖🙏
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Gabor speaks the truth .. I became paralyzed from food poisoning- ended up getting Gullian Barre Syndrome ..while in hospital I read his book “ when the body says NO” it AWAKENEED I was the C personality ( a nurse by occupation) - I saw the dots all the way back to my childhood - a lot of suppressed emotions/anger… I was fortunate to meet Gabor this year in person - and thanked him ( basically he save my life) - I healed my paralysis by healing my inner child, and culture/societal patterns- no conventional medicine went in my body - used food as medicine , removed all toxic people in my life( boundary setting) and managed my pain with meditation and mantra - I love Gabor - he is the real deal and I wish all conventional doctors would practice under his principles - our current medical systems needs to change desperately- we need better doctors that work with patients holistically - the first question you should be asking any patient is how was your childhood ? Start there . I now am a practising functional medicine nutritionist RN and teach people how to heal their body from the inside . Love you to Rangan ❤
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00:02 Awareness is powerful for understanding behavior.
02:26 Prioritizing others' emotional needs over your own can lead to chronic illness.
07:05 Personality traits can contribute to illness but it's not your fault
09:06 Changing learned behavior can lead to improved health and longevity
13:39 Physicians' reluctance to embrace the unexplained
15:43 Emotional stress from childhood can impact adult relationships and health.
19:37 Emotional factors may be related to autoimmune diseases.
21:27 Empowering patients with accessible medical information
25:08 Women experience physical implications due to societal roles and stress.
27:18 Acceptance and control are key principles for healing.
31:24 Personality traits like distractibility and hyperactivity can be normal responses to stress in highly sensitive kids.
33:27 The biology of the brain is shaped by the emotional environment.
37:50 Depression in parents can lead to premature birth.
40:11 Expectation on men not to be vulnerable is a huge source of pressure and dysfunction.
44:28 Understanding and dealing with the impacts of parenting on children
46:36 Healing from trauma is essential for passing on less to the next generation.
50:55 Connecting with others is essential for healing and well-being.
53:05 Spirituality and connection to something larger than the individual self are healing.
57:23 Access to therapy may be limited, but there are free resources for psychological healing.
59:37 Stress is the health epidemic of the 21st century.
1:03:46 Trauma is a psychic wound sustained internally, not just the result of external events.
1:05:54 Children need to be seen, heard, and accepted unconditionally.
1:10:12 The impact of traumatic experiences on parenting and society
1:12:08 Parenting practices and stress impact child development.
1:16:05 Gabor Maté reflects on past parenting mistakes
1:18:18 Unresolved trauma may impact parenting behaviors.
1:22:07 Parenting instincts should be trusted over expert advice.
1:24:16 Gabor Maté speaks about the tyranny of the infant's natural desire to be held by parents.
1:28:12 Shame and guilt are not caused by your children.
1:29:57 Practice self-compassion and inquiry for personal growth
1:34:22 Unnecessary obstetrical interventions can interfere with the natural bonding process.
1:36:34 The biggest factor is the stress on parents.
1:41:01 Parental stress and isolation impact child's brain development
1:43:04 Early years should be prioritized for better mental health
1:47:22 Society pushes for independence early on
1:49:29 Supporting children's sense of independence promotes their natural exploration and growth.
1:54:08 Prince Harry's struggle to liberate himself from expectations and programming in a privileged upbringing.
1:56:14 Understanding patient's emotions and motivations
2:00:24 Healthcare professionals treat everyone with compassion.
2:02:32 Emotional deprivation in the royal family and the impact on future generations.
2:06:48 Struggling to be authentic vs. societal expectations.
2:08:54 Acknowledging trauma and having open conversations about mental illness is essential for societal healing.
2:13:10 Gabor Maté explains the reason for looking at his watch during the interview
2:15:11 Seeking help during troubled times is courageous.
2:19:32 Addictions are attempts to gain emotional pain relief.
2:21:39 Addiction is not limited to certain segments of society, it is prevalent across all sections.
2:25:31 Struggling with addiction and finding healthier alternatives
2:27:37 Social demands for self-suppression impact mental and physical health.
2:31:19 Competition can be positive or negative based on intention
2:33:17 Human nature is not inherently selfish or aggressive.
2:37:27 Success is often not in alignment with our true selves
2:39:35 Authenticity leads to true happiness
2:43:32 Embracing internal family systems and self-acceptance leads to contentment and happiness.
2:45:35 Struggling with self-doubt and insecurity while writing a book
2:49:28 Belief that external factors won't affect core happiness
2:51:23 The author reflects on separating the success of his book from his identity.
2:55:13 Handling success at a later age
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I got auto immune disease while married. I was completely debilitated for 3 years. After he die. MY HEALTH-PHYSICAL. MENTAL, EMOTIONAL AND friendships are better than It ever was as an adult. I am 79 years old and been widowed 10 years. My idea of what my role was as wife and mother was killimg me. My husband had the same ideas about my duty to be all things to the family and deny myself what I needed
Also, without diet after the stress was gine, I lost 40 pounds without even trying
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My self awareness journey with Crohns disease revealed that failing to please significant others, I felt worthless - never achieving connection and feeling unloved. Makes sense that “ self loathing” translates to immune system attacking rather than protecting my body. I am learning to love myself with my Buddhist practice and being Reiki attuned - practices that are mutually beneficial — what I give to others, I receive through my own practices and am not dependent on another for love and self worth🙏❤
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Well done Dr Rangan. You seem to be in the minority of doctors these days. I stay away from doctors who try to push the next tablet onto you without ever looking deeper. I’ve seen a few of your interviews and am so impressed. I just recently found Mate Gabor. What an absolute blessing he is. Love his work and his raw honesty.
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Gabor made me open my eyes some years ago. I became much more spiritual, started to care for myself much more and made some big changes in my life after getting Ulcerative Colitis and having my colon removed. I'm forever grateful to him. His books are very good indeed and I highly recommend them! Psychedelics also made a huge positive impact on me. Thanks for this great podcast❤
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