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Genre: Education
Date of upload: Sep 16, 2022 ^^
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Top Comments of this video!! :3
When my daughter had a temper tantrum I hugged her tight, rocked her and hummed or sung to her until it passed. I just could never ignore her or send her away from me. It just went against every parenting instinct I had . She is 17 now and she is just the greatest, kindest, confident, personable, well behaved. Everyone she meets loves her. My advice is before you have children get lots of therapy to work on your issues so you can parent your child from love and not your trauma. Your child is not your therapist. Children are selfish and will push every button you have so you better be healthily prepared for it.
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Traits that predict and cause illness:
1. Automatic concern for other people's (emotional) needs above your own
2. A rigid identification with duty, role, and responsibility
3. Repressed (and/or suppressed) emotions
4. (Self-limiting) beliefs:
5. Responsibility for other people's emotions
6. "I must NEVER disappoint ANYONE..."
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I think that an understanding of what Dr. Mate’s talking about would help to talk to someone who was neglected as a child and what they are left with as an adult. When you grow up neglected, in the loving nurturing sense, you walk through life wondering who you are, unable to believe or feel the sense of love you get from others. It’s like being in limbo. Everything he says resonates with me because I didn’t experience those things. As a woman in my 60’s I’m still trying to understand it all. Dr Mate’ is helping me to understand why it is that I feel the way I do about life and maybe, just maybe, I can find a feeling of connection to it before I die.
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Thank God for my mom.
My daughter and i lived with her when my daughter was a baby. The doctor had told me to let her cry herself to sleep and my mother said ABSOLUTELY NOT!! We rocked her to sleep every night.
My parenting instinct was so underdeveloped i thought she was wrong at the time.
She is 16 now and more securely attached than most kids her age. I credit my mother.
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Love this! I raised two boys. My first son had colic and cried for 3 months. I always tried to comfort him. I never left him to cry himself to sleep. I never punished my boys. Only rewarded them for positive behavior. Believe me all the love you give your kids, it is not going to spoil them. It will make them confident and loving adults.
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@TomBilyeu
1 year ago
What do you think is the biggest issue we face in society today? Drop a comment below!
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