ImmersiveAmbientModecolor: #f7f4f4 (color 1)
Video Format : 22 (720p) openh264 ( https://github.com/cisco/openh264) mp4a.40.2 | 44100Hz
Audio Format: Opus - Normalized audio
PokeTubeEncryptID: 1defd48554ee665747cc0faebf791acb412a49d7b0cb494cb81d6289ba7422ebeaea64e0f164961ad50aa2e1304022ba
Proxy : eu-proxy.poketube.fun - refresh the page to change the proxy location
Date : 1715883946167 - unknown on Apple WebKit
Mystery text : SWdVbG93bVNlSG8gaSAgbG92ICB1IGV1LXByb3h5LnBva2V0dWJlLmZ1bg==
143 : true
1,653,999 Views • Mar 20, 2018 • Click to toggle off description
Enjoying our Youtube videos? Get full access to all our audio content, videos, and thousands of thought-provoking articles, conversation cards and more with The School of Life Subscription: t.ly/Lds0p
Be more mindful, present and inspired. Get the best of The School of Life delivered straight to your inbox: t.ly/1TZjH
FURTHER READING
“We are, all of us, beautifully crazy or, to put it in gentler terms, fascinatingly unbalanced. Our childhoods, even the apparently benign ones, leave us no option but to be anything else.
As a result of these childhoods, we tend, over most issues, to list – like a sailing yacht in high wind – far too much in one direction or another. We are too timid, or too assertive; too rigid or too accommodating; too focused on material success or excessively lackadaisical. We are obsessively eager around sex or painfully wary and nervous in the face of our own erotic impulses. We are dreamily naive or sourly down to earth; we recoil from risk or embrace it recklessly; we have emerged into adult life determined never to rely on anyone or as desperate for another to complete us; we are overly intellectual or unduly resistant to ideas. The encyclopedia of emotional imbalances is a volume without end. What is certain is that these imbalances come at a huge cost, rendering us less able to exploit our talents and opportunities, less able to lead satisfying lives and a great deal less fun to be around…”
You can read more on this and other subjects here: goo.gl/6ubziU
MORE SCHOOL OF LIFE
Watch more films on SELF in our playlist:
bit.ly/TSOLself
SOCIAL MEDIA
Feel free to follow us at the links below:
Facebook: www.facebook.com/theschooloflifelondon/
X: twitter.com/TheSchoolOfLife
Instagram: www.instagram.com/theschooloflifelondon/
CREDITS
Produced in collaboration with:
Directed by: Hannah & Martha
Design: Hannah McNally
Animation Team: Flora Caulton, Emily Downe, Martha Halliday, Hannah McNally, Kathrin Steinbacher
www.hannahandmartha.com
www.floracaulton.co.uk
www.emilydowne.co.uk
www.kathrinsteinbacher.com #TheSchoolOfLife
Views : 1,653,999
Genre: Education
Date of upload: Mar 20, 2018 ^^
Rating : 4.922 (1,106/55,816 LTDR)
RYD date created : 2022-04-07T03:57:16.8088Z
See in json
YouTube Comments - 3,501 Comments
Top Comments of this video!! :3
Hugs to everyone who's misunderstood, misguided and mistreated
* group virtual hug *
5K |
What's worse is when you went through various traumas as a child but still to this day you are denied the fact you were abused cuz they refuse to accept it was abuse and even deny some of the things happening.
724 |
"We should, where we can, dare to leave home." That really hit me.
1.4K |
Parenting is the hardest most important job in the world that shapes the members of our society yet we dismiss it as trivial.
3.6K |
"That the hurt was essentially undeserved." I've needed that sentence for decades.
565 |
I used to think that I'm a messed up adult and (most of) everyone else are normal people.
And then I looked at my workplace : an overly-submissive manager, an overly-dominating manager, no-opinion-allowed manager, a toxic positivity colleague, an overly competitive colleague, you name it. That got me to believe that EVERYONE is messed up, there's no such thing as normal people.
410 |
I wish it would be a law around the world to have a license to be a parent so they could go through scrutinizing tests to have a child/children because some people are not competent enough, by neither being intelligent enough or having enough financial resources, to have any children.
3.2K |
Our parents screw us up for the first 16 years of our lives , and we spend the rest of it trying to fix the damage they've done 😂
2.9K |
"We run away from lovers that love us too much", that hits too close to home.
971 |
Broken homes make broken kids, broken kids make broken adults, broken adults make a broken world. Vicious Circle.
Just by researching this topic , we are a million steps ahead of our broken parents. Rewire your brain, feed the good wolf, and pass on the knowledge and wisdom .
1.3K |
Hugs to everyone who was abused as a child. It took me more than 20 years after leaving my parents' house to get over my fear of life, of people, of everything, to get over my constant depression. I have been in therapy for 5 years now, and am happier than ever before. Unfortunately, life is almost finished, too, and I feel like I never really lived.
789 |
“All parents damage their children. It cannot be helped. Youth, like pristine glass, absorbs the prints of its handlers. Some parents smudge, others crack, a few shatter childhoods completely into jagged little pieces, beyond repair.”
- Mitch Albom
3.5K |
My sister ran away from our abusive father aged 16 (I was 10). When I was 11 my parents divorced and at 12 I was our fathers next victim. A year later I fell into foster care and on my 14th birthday my uncle committed suicide. When I was 15 I was severely underweight (50kg). About a year later I saved my mother's life who in a psychosis tried to kill herself. I finally decided to run away from my parents age 17. Between that time and my 21st birthday I would move 8 times. In two weeks I'm going to 'celebrate' my 22nd birthday. My life is a struggle every single day, but I'm now finally strong enough to stop thinking about suicide or even have depressive thoughts.
1.5K |
My therapist says that with my childhood I did not stand much of a chance for a “normal” outcome. I have been abused, molested, and raped. While I try not to let these things define me, I know they have had major affect on who I turned out to be. I dream of a life without the constant battle of anxiety, depression, and PTSD. I try to remember that everyone has some inner battle, and to be grateful that I live in a time and place where I can get resources to combat these issues. It saddens me to think there are still places in this world where these things are hidden away (I come from an emotionally unavailable family, so in some sense I can relate) or the trauma survivor is to blame, and even cast from society, or killed. I pray to find some balance and stability in this lifetime so I can use my experiences to relate to and empathize with other hurting people. I strive to be the person who wears their sorrows like jewels and comes out stronger. Blessings to all.
532 |
growing up as an asian, parents just dont give a f about this kind of thing
640 |
We inherit our parents' trauma, but never fully understand it. And as we navigate through this existential labyrinth that is life, we unwittingly become the heroes our parents needed.
1.6K |
I had a MESSED up childhood. But I do my best to change my own life through action.
745 |
a moment of silence for our horrible childhoods where we got hurt and abused instead of being innocent and unbothered
136 |
Ah yes, the eternal question of "Is it ADHD or childhood ptsd?"
425 |
@enigmathegrayman2953
3 years ago
“It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men.” -Fredrick Douglass
2.2K |