@dirtydonthedealer

1 year ago

I dont comment on these things much. But you wanna know what im starting to learn. Love is the ultimate paradox of life itself. For you to love something, truly love something, you have to take on pain and live with it, in a variety of ways. And be happy with the pain where it is and sad when it leaves, nowhere to be found. So is it than that we should embrace pain? Is our human nature so prematurely masochistic in origin that in order for us to feel happy, purposeful, and peaceful, we have to live in a constant state of voluntary pain? Is it As the old saying goes, pain is what lets us know we're alive. If you were looking for a happy ending here, sorry, you missed that train. I'm not a believer in the whole "realizing everyone else hurts, some who have hurt bad have made it, talking about it to other helps" club. Not to knock others, you do what you need to. But ultimately, in my opinion, it all comes down to you. If you want a life devoid of pain, suffering, regret, disappointment. Then, love nothing and expect no love anywhere, and you will have no pain. But if you want a life of happiness, serenity and purpose. Then expect pain, a lot of it, for true happiness and true love. You will have to endure true pain and the truest pains are ones where you can't see the scars. You're born alone, cry alone, love alone, grieve alone, eat alone, sleep alone. So you gotta do it alone. You may not be lonely when you do those things, but it is only you when you are doing those things. Everyone else is just reacting. So, ask yourself that question. For what I have learned is if you ask yourself questions, you will get the answers you need but may not want. Part of the reason why I don't believe in talking to others, you know the answers, you just need someone to essentially virtue signal with you. But they are not going through it, won't be the one losing it all if they chose to no longer love. Won't be the one that bares what you bare if you choose a life of love. It's all on you, no pressure right, well all I gotta say to that is life's grand quest is the most magnificent paradox you'll ever experience, those that make it until the end of the game with the achievement completed say they would do it all over again, everytime. Adios, yall, food for thought. Knowledge is beauty, beauty is pain, pain is love.

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