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Date of upload: Nov 28, 2017 ^^
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I am in residential treatment for alcohol and mental health. Many residents ask WHY so many salads? WHY yoga? WHY mediation and art? WHY gardening and sewing, etc. This TED TALK explains the reasons why in such a simplistic and optimistic way. I am going to pass this link to others in my community. THANK YOU! 82 DAYS SOBER FOR ME TODAY!!! Looking forward to yoga tonight at 6pm :)
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Gray area drinker here. Age 71. Your story is so much like mine. I was a health care worker as well. I eat well and exercise regularly but drink too much too often. My 38 year old son passed away 2 years ago and the fall out from that has made reining in the drinking that much harder but to be honest I had a problem with liquor prior to Matt's death. I think I'm at a crossroads right now. Time to get serious about this before it's too late. Thank you. Great presentation.
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To all of you working on getting sober, I am so proud of you. I grew up with an alcoholic parent and it's hard. I wish you all the best, you can't change anything you don't acknowledge so making this choice for yourself is all the different verses you being forced to give up drinking when you really don't want to. Be kind to yourself, it's progress and not about perfection. You are not a bad person, the addiction is the bad guy and you can and will break free if you trust yourself, your mind and your body. Whatever it takes, everyday is a progress. Even if there's bumps along the way you are not a failure just keep pushing forward. You've got this. I can see things from a dual perspective and I've seen how someone can hit rock bottom grasping for their life at a single strand perhaps thinner than a string on a spider web. That was my father. The illness affected the entire family and even at 39 years old, I can see how it affected me as a child all the way up until now. It's all in my subconscious mind when certain things happen that bring me back to memories that haven't thought about in years. There's help and support in so many different paths and you just have to find the one that works for you. Be kind to yourself, as humans we are resilient and take advantage of that before it's too late whether it's affecting your family, your job, your life, your health. Do not let this become the reason you are on your Deathbed one day. The the body and mind are amazing at healing themselves or repairing themselves. The 10 steps with alcohol anonymous can be applied to anything in life whether you are spiritual, religious or whatever. Fill in the wording to suit you. The 10 steps can even help people with stopping smoking or binge eating, anything. Put on your seatbelt it's going to be a ride but the destination is worth it and you will think yourself for doing it sooner and not later. Perhaps you will ask yourself why you haven't done it sooner. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself and you may be scared of what life will be like without alcohol but the gaps that you are uncertain of, how living life without alcohol will be enjoyable, they will definitely fill in with the better version of you. You have made the decision and that is a big percentage of your recovery. Keep a journal, make voice recordings to yourself from yourself, make a video of you talking just to you and save it like a video diary. When you know that drinking alcohol is not adding anything worthwhile to your life, even if it seems like it at the moment, you have nothing to lose. Don't be afraid of life without alcohol, like I said newer and better things will fall into place to fill those voids. You can look it up, each and every one of us, the chances of us even existing or being born is one in 400 trillion. You are here for a reason stronger than you will ever know. I'm sorry to anyone who is reading this, has gotten to the point where it's become a problem. But on the bright side, every problem has a solution and this one is pretty self-explanatory.
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I quit eight years and four months ago. I had cut back gradually for the two years before I quit. I didn’t have a physical dependence, I never got in trouble with the law, never drove drunk, never went to work drunk. However I gradually became emotionally dependent on my wine ( beer, occasional scotch) a bit too much.
I think millions of people fall into this grey area drinking. I know I did.
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Omg! Jolene just described exactly my situation and the reasons why I stopped drinking 1.5 years ago! I intuitively started meditating, chanting, and doing yoga, but never thought of it from the point of neurotransmitters! Great encouraging message! There is so much beauty in being fully sober! It brings purity to so many aspects of life! Thank you!
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Brilliant talk. I quit alcohol around 3 months ago and although I was a 'grey drinker' like Jolene, and would waste my weekends with the bottle or two of wine and then the two day hangover (in my 40s!!). Over the three months I have felt the changes in my body as I readjust neurologically around sleep, anxiety, moods and digestion. I also had a big life change to deal with, but we all have stuff going on, so it may or may not have made a difference to the process. Some days I would bounce out of bed and some days I would crawl. Some days depressed and some days elated, just average human moods and I could function normally, but they would colour my day. Over time, things are levelling out and I am becoming more consistently happy, focused and calm, not the grouch I could often be. It is wonderful to have this short and clear explanation of what is happening and what to do to about it. I was doing all of those things, but knowing that they actually do make a difference rather than just guessing that it might work is really motivating. It works and now I know why. Thanks Jolene :)
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@MaryJane-xd4sn
4 years ago
Today is my 1st day of sobriety
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