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Genre: Nonprofits & Activism
Date of upload: Oct 30, 2013 ^^
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I've seen it a million times. Someone will get up and say they were addicted to one thing or the other, but they courageously kicked the habit, went through rehab and they are now clean and sober and have been for 3 years. The next thing that happens is that everyone in the room stands up and applauds to show their support.
Where were these people when they were looking for help? When their picture is published in the paper because they got caught with a dime bag or a joint. Where were they when the addict was on rock bottom,...and trust me, even the bottom has a little give to it.
So many people see the addict at their worst and they just want them out of their neighborhoods, off the streets, they don't care, just throw them in jail and throw away the key. All addicts are on a journey. They have to get through this disease. They don't need people or organizations throwing stones in their passway. They need help. Let's help them.
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Great presentation Jacki Hillios! Stigma and shame; my two closest companions. As a nurse for more than 30 years, returning to the clinical setting after earning my license back was incredibly difficult and shameful, hoping that my journey remain a secret. Now 3 years sober, I am eager to share my story and if revealing myself helps one colleague, it is all worth it. I wrote an e-book, lecture at nursing schools and face those from my past, who are shocked and speechless. It is no longer about the shame of my addiction, but rather the pride of my recovery.
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Wow, after reading the many comments below I'm not sure it's even appropriate to respond. So many opinions from people that treat addiction but haven't endured addiction themselves. I'm left to wonder if my being in recovery after 30 years of drinking and using qualifies me to offer up an opinion or is this just a shouting match. In any case, addiction is much too serious for foolish banter and careless insults.
This is exactly why I shunned traditional treatment for a holistic approach to healing myself, for myself and by myself. And so far its working. Knock on wood.
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I kinda liked what she had to say about recovery. I went to AA for 11 years but never really found any fun, hope and joy. I did however start doing a lot of voluntary work within the community & local schools and that brought me more fun, hope and joy than any AA meeting did. It was actually doing something with my time instead of boozing that worked for me I believe. Any AA meetings I've been to always focuses on the negative, the illness and stuff like that - you're just sitting around talking about it. For me, cos I suffer with depression too, I need to actually feel I'm doing something.
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I have been there before, I have been clean and sober for 34yrs, Changed gender when I was 24yrs clean and sober, and currently in my 3rd yr of college to become a Social worker,Trauma Therapist, and the nueroscience of it all. It has really been a process of feeling, and learning how to live in the reality of reality. Sobriety has been just a small gift, doing the feelings and grief work with a therapist has been the biggest gift of all to myself. Never give up on yourself. I got clean and sober at 24 yrs old, Iam now 58yrs old and have a very good life.
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I watched this and I cried.
I haven't done drugs in a long time, but I'm still addicted to video games and other sources of instant gratification.
I recently went on a powerkiting and wakeboarding weekend retreat and what you say meshes so well with my experience! When you have a healthy source of enjoyment, camaraderie, you don't need instant gratification.
Thank you for putting what I felt into words.
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Thank you for all you are doing through The Phoenix. I have had some exposure to your program through my work and was very impressed. More resources like this are needed. People in recovery have so much to offer the world - They are the people with the light in their eyes that seem to be operating at a higher vibration than the rest of the world. Eager, optimistic and helping others - Let's continue to attack the stigma, find and encourage people getting the help they need and watch a big part of the world improve. Recovery is Beautiful!!!
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This was an incredibly enlightening video. I was sober for almost 2 years in AA but I became anti AA soon after and am searching for alternate recovery, This is a welcome sight for me. The fact that this talk was 8 years ago is even more interesting to me. Kinda wish I'd found this then, or even 3 yrs ago when I decided to get sober, yet happy I found it today! Ty Dr. Jacki!
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@martingonzales4695
3 years ago
Addiction is giving up everything for one thing. Recovery is giving up one thing for everything.
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