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Using family psychology research to discuss narcissistic / toxic parenting, & why some kids grow up to not love their parents anymore. The 5 worst parenting styles that ruined us as kids.
Sources & Reddit Stories:
afineparent.com/positive-parenting-faq/guilt-trippâŚ
www.quora.com/What-should-I-do-My-parents-guilt-trâŚ
www.redlib.matthew.science/r/AskReddit/comments/tuf4ra/seriousâŚ
growinghometogether.com/5-reasons-why-comparing-yoâŚ
www.proquest.com/docview/2172386569?accounti&fromuâŚ
www.redlib.matthew.science/r/raisedbynarcissists/comments/83v2âŚ
www.redlib.matthew.science/r/raisedbynarcissists/comments/my1uâŚ
Golden-child-syndrome
www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7925789/#:~:tâŚ.
breakthesilencedv.org/the-healing-journey-to-overcâŚ
www.newsweek.com/parenting-family-mom-dad-childrenâŚ
www.quora.com/What-should-I-do-My-parents-guilt-trâŚ
www.redlib.matthew.science/r/AskReddit/comments/tuf4ra/seriousâŚ
www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/corporal-âŚ.
dandelion-seeds.com/positive-parenting/spanking/
#parenting #psycholgy #estrangement #badparenting #narcissist
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TIMESTAMPS
00:00 Intro
00:54 Story 1
02:08 Bad Style 1 âPropertyâ
02:53 How It Affected Us
04:11 How To Cope
04:57 Story 2
05:52 Bad Style 2 âThrow It In Your Faceâ
07:08 Why They Do It & How It Affected Us
07:57 Story 3
08:35 Bad Style 3 âCompareâ
09:27 How It Affected Us & How To Cope
09:52 Story 4
10:55 Bad Style 4 âGolden Childâ
12:04 How it Affected Us & How To Cope
12:42 Story 5
13:29 Bad Style 5 âCorporal Punishmentâ
15:22 Why They Do It & How To Cope
16:42 Finale
(BTW: I realized too late that I forgot to title #5, itâs: âParents Who Use Physical Punishment As Their First & Only Form of Disciplineâ)
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Views : 406,408
Genre: Education
Date of upload: Nov 19, 2023 ^^
Rating : 4.966 (208/24,551 LTDR)
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Top Comments of this video!! :3
Getting hit as a punishment only made me better at hiding and lying, it also made me lose respect for my parents. We teach children in preschool it's not ok to hit, yet adults hit children, make it make sense.
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The biggest lie I was ever told as a child was âTell the truth and you wonât get in trouble.â
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My mother:abused, guilt tripped, manipulated, and neglected her children.
Also her after losing custody: "I love you! Why are you accusing me?"
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My dad would always guilt trip me about raising me. I grew up feeling a lot of shame for my existence.
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I love it when you actually try to tell someone your trauma, and people just go:
"Aw, i get it, but he IS your father..."
"Oh, his love must be a little rough, but everyone needs tough love..."
"Are you really going to cut ties? But he will suffer SO much, what about daddy?"
Like legitimately, i will only have peace of mind when this son of a bitch dies, but yeah sure, his feelings matter so much, sure.đ
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To sum this video up:
Generational trauma
Just because you had a shitty childhood doesnât mean you should reflect it on your child
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blaming children for existing is like shitting on the floor and blaming the shit for being on the floor
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Mothers think they have every right to do anything to you just because she gave birth to you. Itâs disgusting sometimes, really.
Edit: this topic has been popping up lately, but I feel I have to talk about the outside image parenting. Rather than focus on a childâs needs, they make them dress up or wear makeup and shit to please others. They donât care if their child is comfortable or happy, as long as others think itâs nice.
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Parents say that punishment besides hitting kids doesn't get through to their kids, but that's just because their kids have been taught that it isn't that serious if they didn't get hit. If you go through the steps of coming up with consequences that fit the situation and explaining to your kids why you give these consequences, instead of just hitting your kids, then hitting them won't be necessary.
Also, here's a quote i like: "if we hit our partners, it's abuse. If we hit strangers, it's assault. If we hit another adult we know, it's assault. But if we hit our kids, it's called discipline?"
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Strange how as kids we were always lectured to never fight back or retaliate against bullies, yet we were never advocated for when it came to getting hit by our own parents?
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I was whipped with a belt or a hickory switch followed by a hug and an "I love you" while I was bawling in physical and emotional pain...yet everyone is so shocked how I ended up in abusive relationships. :face-orange-frowning:
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I always find it interesting when people say âmy parents beat me all the time for discipline, and I turned out fineâ
No.. no you didnât ⌠đ¤Śđťââď¸
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I was raised in an Asian household and my parents somehow convinced me that literal physical abuse was good parenting.
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Guys, please donât let people who say âEnjoy your catsâ or âGood luck getting oldâ scare you into being a parent.
Your worth and existence is not defined by being a parent. Donât have them if youâre going to regret them.
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The very idea of grabbing a belt to strike an infant blows my mind. Thatâs crazy how people from our past, and even some today, have adopted this method of punishment. Itâs cruel, unusual, and causes more harm than good.
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It's incredibly important to teach children boundaries. If you teach them that grown ups can touch them anyway they want - very bad stuff happen
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Growing up with narcissistic parents, I was treated like a puppet. Voicing an opinion or doing anything outside of the âprescriptâ laid out for me led to being silenced, sparking a big argument, or even getting my ass whooped. Never felt respected and was always micromanaged as they were strict asl with any aspect in my life showing independence or self autonomy. As a senior graduating next year, I'm joining the military and cutting off all ties from my family. Seeking peace for the first time in 18 years, and I'll have no regrets gaining back control in my life.
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It took me years to realize I had trauma from how my mom treated me. It wasn't even the belt. I was calling me "destructive," always comparing me to my peers in a negative light, shaming me for not being her dress-up doll or liking girly things, calling everything I love a phase, threatening to kick me out over setting boundaries, financially punishing me for trying to become independent (ie. suddenly charging me rent that takes half my income just because I got a retail job), and gossiping about me to friends and family. The only family member who understand is my brother going through it too. Now she wonders why we don't trust her and have depression and self-confidence issues. My mom bullied me worse than my middle school and high school classmates combined.
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Haven't talked to either parent in like 10 years. Don't plan to. I remember hearing "You'll thank me when you're grown up" a lot....No, no I do not. Being someones parent does not give you any right to treat them badly. Quite the opposite, It gives you the obligation to treat them right. You don't owe your parents for giving birth to you (without consent mind you), they're the ones owing you.
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@tysondennis1016
5 months ago
All children deserve parents, but not all parents deserve children.
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