Views : 139,116
Genre: Howto & Style
Date of upload: Jan 22, 2024 ^^
Rating : 4.989 (26/9,540 LTDR)
RYD date created : 2024-05-15T20:12:11.347181Z
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Top Comments of this video!! :3
i had a friend who i considered to be one of my best friends who out of the blue ghosted me completely mid last year. i was devastated and kept ruminating over what i could have possibly done wrong, especially since the last few times we had hung out prior to them ghosting me, they never gave me any impression that there was something wrong with the friendship or our relationship with each other. i had been beating myself up literally the rest of the year, but recently i decided that i donât want to consider anyone a friend who would do that to me. if she didnât think i was worthy of a sit down and a grown conversation, then itâs clear we thought about the friendship very differently. going forward, i only want to welcome friends that can have these grown up, and hard conversations with me, even if itâs about us going our separate ways. this video really helped me get the closure that i needed!
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I cut off two close friends, because at a time when I really needed it, they used my depression against me, saying that I would never be able to do things, leaving me much more down than I already was. I even thought about suicide. I'm still suffering a lot and thinking a lot about whether I did well, I'm still going to compete with an ex-friend in a test for a position, I didn't want to lose to her. I think it's my pride.
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Not me getting betrayed by my best friend and it involving a guy I liked, double edged sword. I forgave her, tried to show sympathy, remained respectful and asked for an adult discussion only for it to be met by guilt-tripping, avoidance & lack of empathy. The greatest pain is when you realize that you cared and valued someone way more than they cared and valued youâŚ
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@tamkaur
3 months ago
Reply to this with one non-negotiable friendship standard youâre setting for 2024 â¤
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