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00:00 Intro
02:14 What Do You Do?
05:52 What History Tells Us About Our Current Relationship Needs
10:07 Why Arranged Marriages Last Longer
15:05 Why 80% of Marriages Are Unsatisfied
20:14 Your Friends Know If Your Partner Is the One
21:19 Find Personal Satisfaction; It Determines Your Relationship's Outcome
24:35 Stop Expecting That Love Will Fix Your Life
27:34 Love Is Not Like The Movies
31:38 Why Men Are Struggling
37:36 The Golden Mean: The Ratio of Attractiveness
41:55 Find the Value You Bring to the Dating Market
46:17 The Premium Effect
53:20 Improving Low Self-Esteem
59:27 Older Generations in the Dating World
01:05:31 How to Go About Our Negative Traits
01:09:25 Does the Sex Ratio Matter?
01:15:02 How to Teach Your Children to Be in Successful Relationships
01:18:52 Concerns Around Child Rate Decline
01:25:40 Gen Z Knows What We Need to Sustain a Healthy Relationship
01:30:29 What Are the Different Attachment Styles in a Relationship
01:33:50 Our Attachment Style and Sex Patterns
01:39:37 What to Look for in a Relationship
01:48:35 Why Narcissists Are Attractive
01:49:48 Watch Out: 14% of the Population Are Psychopaths, Sadists & Narcissists
01:55:05 Red Flags in a Partner
02:01:09 The Four Horsemen
02:03:36 The Importance of Conflict Resolution
02:07:01 The Last Guest Question
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Top Comments of this video!! :3
âGood love looks boring but feels greatâ - serving up truth!
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These are the men the young and impressionable men should be listening to and not those toxic, misogynistic podcast bros
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That self esteem comment! "the higher the self-esteem, the less external validation you need."
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Watching two handsome and intelligent men having a great conversation for +2 hours, that was an afternoon well spent. Gentlemen thank you!
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i'm 42 and went onto Tinder at 36 not really knowing the game. All my pics were nice but no filters and I put exactly what I wanted and did not want to the point that I was told i was being 'too honest'. Through Tinder I got great responses and I ended up meeting a wonderful man and now I'm married.
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1:43:00 'Necessary for a good relationship 1. Emotional stability 2. Shared values and goals 3. Commitment, not giving up. 4. Willing to learn, listen when needed 5. Supportive and wants you to succeed. 6. Ability to resolve disagreements '
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âEmotional fitness is far greater than any amount of money.â Having dated the first emotionally intelligent man of my life at 50 lol (less education and less money - who cares), I can absolutely attest to this. He prioritizes our relationship above all else - no greater feeling and this love pervades all other areas of our lives. I also happen to be wildly physically attracted to him, too. Itâs just the best. Thank you.
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I love the messaging around self-confidence building. I have found the more I commit to myself, my routines, and holdig myself accountable for things like what I eat, when I go to sleep, when I workout etc the happier I have been. I am probably the most fulfilled and content I have ever felt in my life.
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"This is my partner. I don't care what youu think." I love that. Far, far too many people are concerned with how their partner makes them look.
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"Find your tribe and there you'll thrive" So true. We mostly apply this to friendships and we should in romantic relationships as well.
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Iâm a Gen x with two adult daughters. Iâm in my early 50âs and I have worked on myself a lot, and still am. I find men in my bracket mostly set in their ways and unwilling to work on themselves. The majority of available men have so much baggage that they are not even aware about, or expect to be understood and accepted unconditionally. The worst of them expect me to be their therapist, then refuse to do anything different. This is why theyâre so lonely.
Unfortunately this makes women lonely too, by proxy. If I had a dollar for the amount of men I thought were potential partners only to find out how much pain theyâre carrying, and wonât tackle. Luckily for us, women develop strong friendship groups and healthier habits. Of course I am only speaking from my experience.
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I'm literally 35 and yes, you are 100% correct. New age way of dating is terrible, and it feels impossible, easier to just give up and work on other things I want to do in life. I'm a believer that if I put myself on the correct path, and something comes along, then great, but if not, that's okay too.
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00:02 Choosing a partner is crucial for longevity and happiness.
01:59 Paul Brunson's experience in finance and relationship science.
06:18 Evolution of mate selection from procreation to companionship.
08:36 Shift from traditional partner selection to self-expression desires.
13:20 Prioritize your values in your calendar
15:12 Arranged marriages are often more successful than traditional marriages.
19:07 Identify your relationship goals and pursue them unapologetically.
20:52 Importance of individual satisfaction before entering a relationship
24:50 Choosing the right partner and helping them unveil their best self is crucial for a successful relationship.
26:57 Choosing the right partner is a life or death decision
30:52 Men are struggling in the current dating climate.
32:54 Creating safe spaces for men to connect and share challenges.
37:02 The golden mean explains physical attractiveness
38:49 The 70/30 body shape is scientifically the most sexy.
43:07 Short-term mating focuses on immediate physical attraction, while long-term mating considers a wide range of attributes for a lifelong partner.
45:09 Having children can affect perceived mate value
49:33 Putting black female clients on J date resulted in phenomenal success
51:42 Self-esteem drives uniqueness and value
55:29 Boost self-esteem with self-compassion and achievable goals.
57:23 Small commitments shape your self-identity
1:01:00 Authenticity wins in the dating market.
1:03:00 Embrace your uniqueness and be transparent
1:06:47 Improving relationships through self-awareness and active listening.
1:08:42 Social skills impact on happiness and success
1:12:35 Long-term relationships are more important than career accomplishments.
1:14:42 Hypergamy in online dating and its impact on relationships
1:18:57 Population decline and its implications
1:21:06 Fear of demographic changes leading to dangerous ideas
1:25:10 Attachment theory and adult relationships
1:26:48 Attachment styles impact adult relationships.
1:31:05 Attachment styles influence sexual satisfaction
1:33:17 Understanding yourself is key to healthy relationships.
1:37:23 Our experiences shape who we are
1:39:25 Choosing a partner based on superficial criteria can lead to relationship problems.
1:43:18 Emotional stability and courageous vision are crucial in relationships.
1:45:24 Resilience, open-mindedness, and compassion are key traits for a strong partner.
1:49:22 Narcissists and psychopaths use manipulation to achieve their objectives.
1:51:26 Narcissistic partners are extremely difficult to deal with.
1:55:37 Lack of effort is a red flag in a relationship.
1:57:35 Resolving conflict in a partnership is crucial for trust and transparency.
2:01:28 Contempt in a relationship predicts divorce with 99% accuracy.
2:03:34 Selecting the right partner is crucial for a successful relationship.
2:07:52 The impact of self-doubt on one's perception and behavior
2:09:56 Actionable advice on improving relationships
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It's not just what Paul says, it's his personality and warmth. He comes across as extremely authentic and real and a genuinely good person. You just would love to have him as a friend! Love both episodes with him. Thank you both
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This man has the VOICE to match the topic. One can only hope he does audiobooks.
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The part about narcissim triggered me. Narcissist are some of the scariest people ever. Once you experience one it damages you for life. You may bounce back and move on go no contact etc but their dark energy will always haunt you. I don't wish a narc on my worst enemy.
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2:00:20 '99% chance of a broken relationship - if a partner shows contempt and disrespect. The partner doesn't value you, thinks they are better than you, and won't resolve disagreements.'
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40:00 I'm listening to this while at the gym and I just dropped my current excerise to go work shoulders đ
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Crucial in Relationship
1. Emotional Stability
2. Courageous Visions
3. Resilience
4. Open mindedness
5. Compassionate and Kind
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