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The Three Requirements of a Good Relationship
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It can be hard to know what we really need from a relationship. But the task becomes much simpler if we keep in mind that every relationship requires just three crucial ingredients to work.

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“Many people, after they’ve been in a couple for some time, will privately admit that they are – in many ways – frustrated and disappointed by the person they’ve chosen to share their lives with. If pressed for details, they will have no difficulty coming up with a list: their partner, they might complain:..”


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@nizasiamehenry

3 years ago

1. Kindness 2. Shared vulnerability 3. Empathy and Understanding.

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@HIXHAM

3 years ago

“When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.”

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@LoneBlack007

3 years ago

“It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.” - Friedrich Nietzsche

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@MindsetWithJosh

3 years ago

It's important to choose people who also consistently choose you. When someone is choosing you, they will put effort into the relationship and work to keep you in their life! If someone isn't choosing you, you'll feel like you're chasing them and trying to force things to work. Nobody is worth chasing for this reason. Always choose people who choose you!

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@ReynaSingh

3 years ago

People that are dissatisfied with themselves usually have difficulty finding fulfilling relationships. A relationship is just as reflective of you as it is of the other person.

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@omgitzjen133

3 years ago

learned in my psych 101 class that happy couples 1. turn to each other as friends 2. respect and admire each other 3. compromise, let go of power sometimes

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@mykalsavage2949

6 months ago

One important lesson I learned from relationships is that you can save yourself a lot of heartache by loving someone for who they are in the present moment, not who they could be in the future. People rarely change.

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@HIXHAM

3 years ago

"Before you marry a person, you should first make them use a computer with slow Internet service to see who they really are." — Will Ferrell

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@amelieschuberth8070

3 years ago

1. Being present as a couple and having quality time together while respecting each other boundaries 2. Acknowledging as often as possible the partner qualities & actions while being compassionate with each other failures 3. Celebrating successes & achievements together while being a kind listener for the heartaches. This is all I want from a relationship! <3

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@three-d131

3 years ago

Why does this YouTube channel always post shit right at the moment I’m going through some thing? I feel this channel is watching me

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@LongTruong.mp4

3 years ago

A relationship should add to your life. A relationship shouldn't be your life.

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@ruizisaac7395

3 years ago

Basically, trade your Expectations for Appreciation

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@opedromagico

3 years ago

Living in alternative relationships helped me understand that I can never blend together to become one with my partner. We are two different people having a unique relationship, so instead of following someone else's rules, how about we talk and define our own rules?

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@Closeupclips

3 years ago

“By all means, marry. If you get a good wife, you will be happy. If you get a bad one, you will be a philosopher.” - Socrates

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@justaguypassing3rough

3 years ago

I’d say you’d have to add loyalty and honesty to the list, these qualities are the strong foundation a relationship is built off of (in my opinion)

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@Ojuolape

3 years ago

Kindness is incredibly important to me.

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@eliopalombi

3 years ago

Me, a single 15 year old: interesting

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@assreductionist8575

3 years ago

Remember: If you feel broken or empty inside, a relationship will never fix you. ☀️ EDIT: A relationship ALONE won't fix you, and chances are you will attract a person who will break you down further and exploit your feelings of emptiness, or the other way around.

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@em_.hay.

1 year ago

For me personally I'd pick: 1. Respect for each other and for other people - I think if you respect each other you will be kind and be abke to get through differences 2. The ability to laugh with each other and make each other laugh - to me there is no life or love without laughter and fun 3. Listens and empathises - I think if you and your partner respect, listen and understand each other you will feel more able to open up about with your vulnerabilities as well 💜

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@couch_philosoph3325

3 years ago

I do agree with this. All the men i have been in relationships with that had very different occupations from me were great relationships, because they were kind and loving. One time i met a guy who did exactly the same as me and we seemed to be fitting perfectly together. But it didn't work, because the emotional connection wasn't there entirely. The only thing i would add to the list you guys made is (at least for me) a similar willingness to sacrifice/ do things for the other. Too often there is one person who does everything to please their partner while the other doesn't really acknowledge it. A good relationship is a balance. Maybe this plays into kindness

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