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Top Comments of this video!! :3
I hate power dynamics, people wanting to be above you so you're are forced to "belittle" them back to their place which is on the same plan as everyone else
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Indeed when repeated situations turns into a lessons learned, the INFJ grows dramatically
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We need to stop at number one. The minute you realize youâre dealing with a narcissist and their games, donât waste another moment of your time or risk one inkling of your self.
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My integrity is WHY they hate me.
My ability to remain calm in the face of THEIR chaos demonstrates their inability to control their self... Which makes them hate me even more.
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Best thing I did with many narcissists was going no contact, including my mother. I am no longer the supply that they feed off of.
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The style of many of these comments is enough to convince me I'm an INFJ. It's nice to know there are similar people out there.
My narcissistic wife (who also had BPD) would regularly tell me I wasn't human. Her other favorite phrases were "Yeah, right" and "I can do it, I'll find a way. I always do." She got us into the worst situations by refusing to think beyond her irrational faith in the ability to do whatever she chose to. I believed her because she was so confident, but also because she'd get angry if I didn't.
I think the hardest thing for her to deal with was that I got stronger. I started to stand up for our survival by very carefully and considerately trying to keep her expectations grounded in reality. We could still have a safe and reasonably comfortable future, even though she could no longer work. She stole my money, stole the car, and drove far away to be homeless.
I'd rather she stuck around, since I hated the abuse less than the permanent loneliness (I have far too much anxiety to meet anyone else.) But all things considered, I guess I "won". We're both alone, but she's homeless and her games failed to provoke or break me. I almost believe in myself now.
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Never have any kind of empathy for narcissists, they are nothing to me not even humans
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Both parents and recently my son's mother in law. It took 4 years to move on in forgiveness. Especially forgiveness for myself. It took more self work than I realized was necessary, however completely worthwhile
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Your video is spot on Wenzes. I spent 35 years with my NPD wife because I believed that love and patience conquer all. For clarity, MOST of the time she would act in a reasonable manner. But, anytime her fears or insecurities acted up it was all bets off. Unlike her mother, she showed NO signs of narcissism during our three years of dating. The moment we got married the (covert) mask came off and I was scared shitless. I spent year after year hoping that one magical day she would wake up from her insanity but, it never came. Like a spiritual cancer, I watched the lack of empathy, lack of direction and lack of a core identity, slowly eat her alive as she wrestled to say and do whatever she thought others expected of her for validation.
Once our children grew up and moved out, she went into overdrive, blaming me for everything. I continued for 9 more years hoping that we could someday come to terms but, it was all wishful thinking. I honestly felt like I was just dealing with a child the entire marriage. 18 months ago, when she realized that NOTHING she could say or do was going to get me to crack, she moved out. In spite of all the verbal abuse, personal attacks on me and the endless slander, I never gave her the satisfaction of losing my temper, not because it was some contest but, because it was the right thing to do. My conscience is clear. Now...I'm trying to stop my head from spinning and figure out how to take my experiences and help others so they don't have to go though them. And, I have not given up on love either. Thank you, girl. Keep rockin' it. Jeffrey Z. in SC
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I just wanted to say thank you for your content, it feels nice to have someone even try to understand INFJs most especially when theyâre accurate, not to mention you embrace our differences while explaining how other personalities act and feel
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One does not rule over a narcissist. But with patience and effort it is possible to use their ego to steer them
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Door slam and free yourselves! Narcissists are abusers, hence the term narcissistic abuse. We would not tolerate physical abuse so please let us respect ourselves and uphold the same standard for any psychological and emotional forms of abuse.
In endlessly attracting these personality types we must ask ourselves which facets of use still need healing and where do we need to grow: for once lessons are learned there will be no need to repeat that which we haven't repaired.
Sending love and strength to anyone experiencing any narcissistic relationship dynamics, may you free yourselves and cultivate inner peace and heal your inner child đ¤
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As an infj our lack FI is power and pain at same timeâŚ
I have been through many traumas if it was somebody else they wouldnât have made it thanks to lack of own feelings.
my bestie complained how lightly I told him about my mother sickness and financial crisis.. I went through last year.. it was stage 3 cancer which cleaned off my whole earnings.. although I was over the situation⌠it just reminded me the severe pain I went through.. I never got emotionally week throughout the situation but when it was reminded me how severe it was all the feelings and memories came through and a tear came through my eyes when it was long over.. we feel through 3rd perspective it make us invulnerable to pain.. but that pain is deep inside still I wanna let it out I just donât know how..?
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~ dear Wenzes ~ I lose phones, life happens & a relationship came alongâŚ.but I return to find your space ~ because you are simply the quintessential INFJ resource/educator. You sound absolutely smashing, a tiny, barely perceptible touch of your homeland., beautiful.
~ yes, have had a win-win framework of mind for as long as I can recall, but struggle to tolerate the fact that fewer & fewer humans are this way.
You know whatâs EPIC?!?
You are, Wen! ~đź you provide inspiration, youâre intelligent, youâre kind, youâre a valued, awesome content creator and most definitely, you are EPICâŁď¸
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Other people look for exits, but perhaps INFJs just carry this exit around to use in case of existential emergency...đ
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Because most narcissistic people are not use to anyone not crumbling under them.
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Itâs true. They can NEVERRRR. I see them coming a mile away. Sometimes a play just long enough but I know what theyâre doing đđ´
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Wish this content was taught in school early on. I'd have understood myself and other's,so much better. And would have made growing up much easier. Thank God for you being here. Helped me immensely â¤
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Either we find a good wife or we become a philosopher. Sokrates
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@konbonwa
1 month ago
I am an INFJ and my earliest memories are of being beaten savagely by my high spectrum narcissist father and my childhood did not improve much from that point onward. When I encounter a narcissist these days I know from experience that it is best to separate from and avoid these people. Narcissists are stuck in a very early stage of childhood emotional development, they have zero empathy for others and there is an extremely low possibility that they will ever change. So don't feel guilty for separating from a narcissist because they will never feel badly about hurting you to achieve their goals.
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