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Date of upload: Oct 2, 2023 ^^
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If men are so worried about rejection then perhaps the rule my mother drilled into me needs to be shared. She told me that it takes the most amazing amount of courage for a man to ask a woman out. She told me that I was allowed to say no but I was NEVER allowed to shame, ridicule or be rude in any way to his approach. And yet I see girls and young women be so mean to men who approach them if they are not interested. It’s like the women are so offended that this man in front of them thinks he even stands a chance that they feel they have right to punish them. We all just need to be better to each other.
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I have a young guy 19 who works for me, he is adorable and a very sweet kid. No girlfriend, never been on a date or even kissed a girl. Today he told me he is over women, I asked why? He was watching on social media videos about women's "Red Flags" he was so frustrated about all the mixed messages he was getting. He gave me an example that one TicTok was about if a man is close to his mother it is red flag but the next one was if he's not close to mother it's a red flag. He is also scared if he says the wrong thing or makes a move it will be all over social media which to be embrassement for rest of his life. Poor kid.
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I believe the reason time seems to go faster as we get older is because our minds throw out, or don't even form, memories of unremarkable events. Each year, we have fewer remarkable events to store in long term memory, because we do the same thing over and over--the treadmill. Experiencing the same thing over and over is unremarkable. So, when we look back at the past year(s), it feels like it was gone in a blink. The days pass slowly, but in our memories, the years seem to have passed quickly.
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I think we are suffering a more basic issue. The lack of interest in participating in the human continuum. Get married for? To get a mate for? To get a mortgage for? I find ppl having a harder time answering these questions.
There has to be good reasons to get up in the morning. Justification for grinding on everyday. Finding those are the key to happiness in my opinion.
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Had a teacher who was also a veteran. As me and my friends were quite skeptical about him because of how harsh he felt and the high demands he had on us.
A few months later we loved him more than any other teacher, he invited us to his home and introduced old rock bands and how to use basic tools. Felt really sad when I aged up and had to change schools and lost him as a teacher.
Many years later we meet in a random field in the woods as both turned out to be in the home guard. One of the last things he said to me that day was that he was really proud to see what I had become. Hit me really really hard as I didnt feel proud about myself. That changed after that meeting and now we keep regular contact.
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I don't even want to have sex anymore. I now feel a great amount of unattraction toward women (at least their personalities), and at this point I haven't k*lled myself because I've got a sliver of unfounded hope and a whole lot of inertia. At some point, probably when my parents are gone, I think I will lose all tethers to this world and finally do it. I'm sick of money and the games people play to gain "status" and power, and I ultimately spend whatever extra money I've got on food, substances, products, and software that disconnect me from reality. I can't wait until I can finally take the plunge and do it permanently, because I do not want to continue living. I did not feel this way back in 2019 and before, but I absolutely feel this way now. I'm just tired.
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27-year-old woman here. Something my female friends and I have noticed is that growing up, we felt as though we were held to a higher standard by our schools and parents than boys were when it came to things like behavior, academics, appearance etc. The reason is simple: Girls are given the message from a young age that society is designed to benefit men and that women have to work twice as hard to get to the same place. I believe this was done with good intentions, but the flip side is that boys and young men's emotional well-being and achievement have been badly neglected because men were not perceived to need any support.
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18:20 "while making her feel safe." I found that the best way to make women feel safe, is to not approach them. That's how I protect them from my creepiness.
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Im a man who has not had sex in 25 years, im 49 now.
I suffer with BPD/MDD and im a very lonely person. I had nothing to offer a woman so im resigned to dying alone. I have already attempted suicide on 3 occasions. I also had been raped when i was 12.
I had no father and barely made it to secondary school. College was never an option.
I mourn the child my one partner aborted. I felt i had to respect her choice but inside a bit of me died at 19. Those traumas drove me to being a drug addict fot 15 years..
My mother brought me up in a strict catholic home. I tried to approach a couple of girls but was rejected. I am that lonely man with nothing to lose.
I dont feel any animosity towards women as im a waste of their time and i have no real profession. 😢😢😢
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7 months ago
Thank you Scott 🙏🏽 If you enjoyed this conversation could you do us a favour and HIT that like button on the video! Helps us a lot ❤️
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