Views : 129,067
Genre: Education
Date of upload: Mar 15, 2024 ^^
Rating : 4.907 (176/7,372 LTDR)
RYD date created : 2024-05-06T04:41:53.724742Z
See in json
Top Comments of this video!! :3
Timestamps
1). The pick me 0:22
2). If you can't handle me at my worst 1:04
3). The ghost whisper 1:37
4). The mirror, mirror on the wall 2:15
5). The lovebomber 2:59
6). The time traveler 3:45
7). The serial monologuer 4:10
8). The social media stalker 4:42
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. ššš
543 |
I think another type of person that would be smart to stay away from, is a very depressed person that trauma dumps in almost all conversations. Not to say depressed people can't be in relationships (heck, I am), but being exposed to so much negativity for a while stirs up this chronic insecurity about how your SO is doing, and that it's your responsibility to keep them happy when it might be totally unrealistic. Then you forget to take care of yourself. I just stopped an emotionally vulnerable friend from entering this sort of relationship because I've been there myself and holy hell was it a roller coaster ride.
988 |
That "Social Media Stalker" part hit HARD. I had a great relationship for 3 years or so; not perfect but I did my best to keep it together, even through the pandemic and a few conflicting opinions. Eventually she found some posts on social media about my previous ex from like 6 years earlier, and started making the worst assumptions about me. I made a poorly-thought out comment that she should "stop letting her assumptions breed with each other", and things were over pretty quickly after that. I truely appreciate this advice, thank you.
57 |
Don't date extreme people-pleasers. They won't tell you if something is wrong, they'll just agree with everything you say and be passive. You won't really know if they are happy or not. But when you break up and you'll try to fix at least your friendship with them, they'll tell you how they didn't like you at all, that you were so bad partner and what everything what did you do wrong. But you won't really know about all these things until one moment when they throw at you everything. It happened to me and it hurt because I was really trying hard to be the best partner I could. But he just didn't tell me something is wrong.
Sorry for grammatic errors xd
29 |
Iām dating the opposite of the time traveler. Heās said he has a lot of trauma from his past so discussing or asking about his past is a boundary for him but we also donāt talk about the future much. He says he wants to live in the moment, which when we are together is fun but it makes me feel like our relationship has no real future.
50 |
Another one that should make into the list: The Stick-To-You-Like-Flypaper. The clingy and possessive types--the ones that ORDERS you to stay away from your friends and other loved ones.
"Wanna have quality time with your friends and loved ones? Why bother when you have me?"
These people gonna be receiving the "thank you, next" straight up from me. Lol.
14 |
If you cant handle me at my worst,
I cant blame you, that shit is rediculous.
I honestly used to do the mirror thing, its a mark of someone who is insecure, its like, they might like me if im more like them, it doesnt work. As ive gotten more confident ive stopped doing it, and im happier for it.
15 |
That part about the "time traveler" hits really hard for me.. Sometimes its hard to let go of the past or worry about the future. Something i still struggle with to this day. Compared to now i'm alot more aware of this feeling & i'm currently working on it. Im trying my best to live in the present by being grateful of my past achievements & thinking of certain events or person who have changed me for the better. Also I've been focusing on things i enjoy or are of special interest like music production & life sciences
18 |
Personal take:
If you feel that someone you want to date or even befriend or already know feels/seems or just is judgemental, see if you can help the person to acknowledge this flaw and show that theyāre genuinely working on it, if they donāt care or donāt want to or canāt notice this and canāt be bothered to do something about it, run away, because they will zap you of energy and confidence really fast.
161 |
28 year old Virgin With Autism, Bipolar Depression, Anxiety, OCD,ADHD, schizophrenia traits. When had break down @ 21 years old the Doctors told me Odds are very Low and we need to get you to hold a Job for 1 year also majority in your mental health history Homeless, In and out of mental health facilities ECT. I've been oddly stable since 24 So far about to cross 1 year Market with 400$ week retail job
72 |
I have met a lot of serial monologuers. A lot of times I was around other people and they would talk and talk nonstop and they would not let me talk. Every time I try to speak they would constantly interrupt me. Itās very upsetting for me and I donāt want a relationship with a partner who does that.
4 |
@Psych2go
1 month ago
We hope this video helps ease headaches and heartaches in the long run. Not only we cover the serious mental health topics. You will see more mental wellness and lifestyle topics on this channel. The goal is to EMPOWER YOU become a better a version of yourself through personal development or even learning on how to create a better relationship/connection with others. :_PSIBigHeart:We hope you can continue to support our journey as we continue to grow together. Let us know what topics you'd like to see more of!
186 |