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Were you abused as a child and not even know it?
In this thought-provoking discussion, we delve into the sensitive topic of childhood trauma and abuse. We will explore the lasting impact of emotional abuse, childhood emotional neglect, and other forms of mistreatment on mental health. We will also discover how childhood trauma can lead to conditions like CPTSD (Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder) and childhood PTSD.
We provide a safe space for survivors to share their experiences in the comments below and offer empathetic insights for healing and understanding.
If you or someone you know has been affected by childhood abuse, this video aims to shed light on this invisible pain and foster a supportive community.
#childhood #trauma #abuse
Do you have a traumatic childhood and don't realize it? We made a video all about it:    â˘Â 5 Signs You Had A Traumatic Childhood... Â
If you relate to this video, we have also left a list of hotlines below you or a loved one can use to seek help for abuse.
Resources:
National Child Abuse Hotline (US and Canada): 800-4-A-CHILD (800-422-4453)
National Domestic Abuse Hotline: 800-799-SAFE (800-799-7233)
TTY: 800-787-3224
Video Phone for Deaf Callers: 206-518-9361
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 800-273-TALK (800-273-8255)
TTY: 800-799-4TTY (800-799-4889)
Crisis Text Line: Text HELLO to 741741 (US and Canada) or 85258 (UK)
National Runaway Switchboard: 800-RUNAWAY (800-786-2929)
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References:
Goodman, W. (2020, January 27). 14 signs you WERE Parentified as a child. Psychology Today. www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/healing-together/202001/14-signs-you-were-parentified-child.
Monroe, J. (2019, September 16). Parentification impact on mental health. Newport Academy. www.newportacademy.com/resources/mental-health/parentification/.
26, N. H. U. A., & Harris, N. (2021, April 26). What is parentification? Spotting the warning signs and how to let kids be kids. Parents. www.parents.com/kids/development/what-is-parentification-spotting-the-warning-signs-and-how-to-let-kids-be-kids/.
Launder, A. (2020, August 26). Growing up too quickly: Parentified children. The Awareness Centre. theawarenesscentre.com/parentification/.
Cece, A. (2020, May 18). Signs you were a parentified daughter, and how it can show up in your marriage. Real Strong. www.realstrong.org/blog/the-parentified-daughter-in-her-own-marriage.
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Children donât get traumatized because they are hurt. They get traumatized because theyâre alone with the hurt. â Dr. Gabor Mate
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My older sister was parentified because she always had to take care of me and my little brother while w were growing up. When I was younger, I always used to think she was bossy but she actually had to give up her childhood just to take care of us. Thanks for making us aware of this trauma
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0:00 intro
0:44 1 you like feeling in control
1:14 2 you never felt like you could express your negative feelings
1:42 3 you grew up with a heavy weight on your shoulders
2:25 4 don't have any memories of "being a kid"
2:52 5 you struggle with relaxing and "playing"
3:17 6 you feel you need to take on the role of "Peacemaker"
3:45 7 a great deal of empathy
4:49 outro
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i was sexually abused by my biological father as a child. every time i hear on the news that it happened to someone, i feel sympathy for the victim and hidden anger for the one that did it
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"Anything that is "wrong" with you began as a survival mechanism in childhood."
~Dr. Gabor Mate
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I struggle defining my childhood. I had lots of good times, but when they were bad they really tore away at me. I was always being told im lucky im a child and should worry about child things, bit being expected to have adult sensibilities and listen to everyone elses trauma. Oh, and then told that my sadness was just silly childhood stuff.
I did hurt just as much as anyone else, but nobody ever took my emotions seriously. They were too worried about themselves to see the effect anything had on me.
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I still have nightmares and flashbacks to horrific moments in childhood when I was riddled with fear at the hands of my birth mother.
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Adults who have childhood trauma and dissociative traits are actually angels on earth and when the lucky ones get the help that works for them, they make the most amazing mental health professionals and even if that isnât their chosen profession theyâll be regardless the most understanding, loving and gentle soul youâll meet.
Written by a 27 year old who suffers D.I.D , CPTSD, Manic depressive disorder, borderline personality disorder, anxiety disorder , adhd and autism.
Life is rough and im learning about my DID diagnosis. This is my most beautiful alter. Sheâs kind, smart and motherly
she looks after me
Love you all even if youâre a broken soul.
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I was groomed at 10 years old, my parents never really had any time for me since they worked almost every day my entire life, around the time i was 15 years old i had found chat apps like discord where because of the lack of validation and attention i was parentified and i began trying to help people unprompted, trying to fix everyone's problems when i didnt need to or when they were supposed to do it themselves, that made other people dependant on me and eventually dragged me into toxic relationships where i became an object of obsession at a really young age, along the years i started to realize my inability to say no to people, so i began painfully cutting people off my life, and these parenting habits have stuck with me even in current, healthy relationships, i never had a fond childhood memory either, all that innocence was stripped away at 10 years old, so my entire childhood i spent it as an adult rather than a kid, now im extremely burnt out and i dont want to do anything anymore
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This explains so much. I have repeated the pattern of choosing emotionally stunted, controlling, abusive relationships as I can see their hurt. I want to mother them to nurture the part of them that no one else sees. And I end up being minimised and abused. I seek the emotional unavailability I had from my parents and I do everything I can to make them love me, even though they are incapable of it. It's exhausting. Would love a video on how parentified children can break the cycle as adults who need to control situations by keeping vulnerability at bay.
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This is actually really helpful for me because I cry every night and I donât know if itâs just me thereâs something wrong
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I identify with almost all of these. Knew I parented my parents a good bit as a child bit seeing the aftereffects/signs of it is comforting in a way. It also helps knowing others went through this, too. â¤
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Oh man, this hits home. After my mum attempted suicide when I was 13 I assigned myself the role of taking care of her mental and emotional wellbeing while concealing the absolute trainwreck that was my own psyche (which wasn't exactly helped by the trauma of finding my mum mid-overdose and having to call the ambulance). 20 years later and I still struggle to articulate any negative feelings because I'm hyper-mindful of how others will receive them.
I guess I'm grateful for my heightened empathy (even though it also creates a lot of problems), but overall I wouldn't recommend the experience.
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Parentified as a kid and now needing parenting as an adult⌠ill equipped for either/never having instruction for either = absolute mess
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We experience trauma in the womb and when we are born. We also experience trauma as a toddler, with our frustration with our parents who fail to satisfy our insatiable needs and demands. And also when we individuate from our parents around the age of 2-3 years old. And then thereâs more trauma again when weâre teenagers and we separate from our families in order to develop our own identities. Life is full of trauma. But life is more about how we respond to it, rather than what happens to us. Two people could be going through the exact same situation, and yet see things differently, thus producing strikingly different results.
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I had no parents, dad left, mom was at work and with her boyfriends, so i grew up taking care of my younger siblings cause my older brothers didnt give a damn
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I've known this feeling for a long time as I had to watch over my brother and sit in my emotions/repress negative emotions while my Dad was alive. After he passed, this just became reinforced. Thank you for putting how I've felt into words. I may not have my childhood any longer, but it's a weight off my shoulders to know I wasn't the problem.
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My older sister didn't take on the role as we were alone a lot. So, I took on the role as middle child. As an adult, I feel like I should always be doing something constructive at all times.
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#2 #6 and #7 are the only ones i can seriously relate to. I think for me it was more feeling unheard and emotionally neglected at times. I did know about it already. But thank you for sharing đâ¤
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Do you personally experience this before or know someone might be? Care to share this video them :_PSIBigHeart:
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