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We spend so much time believing we'll never meet someone only to make choices that ensure we don't.
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I really enjoyed this conversation...I hope you listen I think it's a really important one!
https://youtu.be/1ORIReZNOpo?si=8Kdkd...
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You need to tell people and the world who you are so they don't tell you!!! We talk ALL about this in our most recent episode with the brilliant Maha Abouelenein https://youtu.be/_QEvQWkMYnw?si=XgK8l...
Let me know what you think when you listen?!
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It seems a tad unfair at times that we will pick people who arenât good for us and who trigger our feelings of unworthiness, doesnât it? Despite the red flags and the behaviours we let slide, we still somehow seem to miss all the cues and alarm bells, donât we? Maybe it's not that we miss them, it's that we don't act on them.â
We will choose partners from our wounds, till we donât. As in, if we are attracted to people who are unavailable, unkind, fleeting, and/or generally not a good fit, we will keep picking them till we stop the pursuit of those who hurt us. Why? Because we are trying to heal an emotional injury from our childhood. An unavailable parent, maybe we didnât fit in in school, maybe a parent left, maybe they drank⌠whatever it is, we heal it by making a choice that stops us from re-wounding ourselves.â
If youâve been struggling in love and are attracted to the wrong people⌠itâs a lot like an addiction. We crave whatâs not good for us. To choose differently requires we go against everything the addiction pulls us towards and at the same time make the choices and move in the direction where we will finally get the love we crave. That love is unconditional and filled with boundaries and compassion. That love is the love you are required to give yourself to stop going towards people who are not good for you.â
We are what we need. We are the answer. You no longer need to search for what you thought was outside of you. Now show up, make a decision youâve known in your heart youâve needed to make your whole life, and choose yourself. Till you do, why would anyone else? I know you can. Now do it. And then do it again. And then once youâve passed all the tests and said ânoâ to what isnât the love you seek, itâll start to show up, because you did.
This type of alignment isn't an endpoint, it's a way of living.
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This is one of my favorite episodes I've filmed recently...Britt is AMAZING. If you haven't listened yet please do and let me know your thoughts!
https://youtu.be/jXL4Jh2VkaU?si=pITxV...
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I was watching a TED talk from Caroline Myss and she said something which I loved, "If there's one thing I've learned in all my years as a healer, it's that liars don't heal."
Our body seeks peace and to live in an environment that feels free. Honesty and integrity get us into a healthy alignment where our bodies feel light. So when you're considering what to do or where you need to move your life towards, seek the direction that feels light. Check in with your body. Let your truth exist somewhere other than inside your body.
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If you haven't yet, please check out my latest episode with educator, Will Reusch...we talk a lot about this....
Do you agree?
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I remember hearing the quote, "you should leave your relationship as you would leave a house for the next owners."
I wondered to myself, "Why don't we do this? Why don't I do this?" Obviously this level of maturity and mutual respect and reverence isn't always possible, but it is always available. And the best we can do is what we can do. Knowing we did the best we could is what walking with peace and presence truly means.
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