Have You Avoided Asking Someone For Help, because they might say NO? Before I share exactly why that happens... TO ALL OF US... let me tell you what science calls it: Addiction To Approval.
This effects 99% of us at some point in our life, for those of in SALES, it effects us everyday!
For the past 35 years, I've been in the study of human reality, the real world of what kind of crazy crap we do to ourselves on a daily basis. My research is not in the confines of a white science lab, this is real world, real people and real science. If you believe you struggle with keeping on track or find you gut locks up when you need to 'ask for the order', you are not alone. This is the brain doing what it is designed to do. OH and BTW, you are not going to change that response anytime soon. So we have to learn how to adopt a new way to see this old problem.
As a Certified SelfTalk Instructor / Trainer and Addiction To Approval Coach / Trainer I've been taught how to crack this code.