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Reframes reality
Inflated, counterfactual self-perception (good person victimized or paranoid ideation)
Reassigns weights to sources of supply with you as sole arbiter
Converts negative to positive supply (locus of grandiosity)
Future or past orientation (will be adulated in the future or would have been appreciated in the past)
Self-aggrandising referential ideation
Delusional revenge fantasies
Magical Thinking
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Top Comments of this video!! :3
I have been Binge Listening to your videos and I have learned so much. You have a clear and unapologetic way of explaining the very thoughts feelings we have. Your contributions to this space are invaluable to say the least.
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Thank you, this is what stalkers do as well. Stalkers know what they are doing is unwanted yet they reframe the reality of the situation to suit their fantasy.
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He's mid fifties, the only supply he has left are his elderly parents, they over indulged. He speaks like a child when with them. His wife ditched him and he tried to monkey branch my way, it took incredibly strong boundaries to get him to go away, the desperation made him like a bully toddler. The attempted love bombing was horrific, hints of not being interested didn't work and he just decided there was a full relationship. I had to get rude which didn't go down well. It was the most surreal horror story I found myself in.
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Listening to the expert I can see why the narc rarely seeks help.
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Thank you for all your knowledge and support Doctor.
My son, at age 14 wrote a paper about his father entitled “The 50’ Toddler” - how did he know that his father was a malignant narcissist at that time? Unbelievable as it took me 40 years to get away from this sick, pathological monster. Still going through an extremely contentious divorce from this man baby.
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This guy goes so deep into it this is what I needed. I didn’t want to believe it
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I guess this kind of fits the description of myself, I find myself isolated and alone I would so like to change and open my heart the only difference is I don’t have much love for myself at all.
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Thank you so much I intend to get rid of these parasitic narcissistic psychopaths that have infested my mind.
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Your explanations in the last chapter (locus of grandiosity) of negative supply and the mechanics in the narcisistic mind were eye-opening. Now it became obvious to me why no contact and grey rock are actually stonger "weapons" than confrontation or exposing the narcisist. Great video 👌
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The BEST explanation I have ever heard!!! You have completed the hole picture for me. Thank you. I am now free to let my narcissist go completely.
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This is great & timely information since I'm currently writing a book "Mastering Self-Supply for the Successful Narcissist" so that the stigma can be removed and people encouraged on using conscious narcissism toward living their best lives.
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I married one of these people didn’t realise it till 2020 and now I seem to be a magnet to these sort of so called man - child’s!
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The levels of this dysfunction are many. Thanks for clearing this up.
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I've said this. He's like a man child, whose family is determined to keep him 14 forever
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This was a super timely teaching for me 😅🎉 Thank you, Professor Vaknin! can always count on your explanations
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I'm the offspring of two narcissists, one definite and the other almost certainly, and hearing this scares me because this video defines my coping mechanisms from childhood. I've worked very hard to discard them because I want to be nothing like the relatives that made my start in this world so disastrous.. but is there any real getting away? What's the boundary between someone who's been around narcissists too long and a bonafide narcissist?
I like to think I've put it behind me as best I can.. and stay that way.
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This is such an amazing explanation and makes so much sense
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EXCELLENT! And, right on time. THANKS SAM!!!
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Thanks for a deeper look into our psyches 😁
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@shredhed572
6 months ago
"The Malignant Narcissist doesnt desire to do good - they only desire to LOOK good." - M. Scott Peck
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