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Date of upload: May 18, 2016 ^^
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I’m struggling more than I ever imagined. I’ve gone through a lot and the person I’ve been dependent on is in a new relationship. I feel abandoned and lost without him. Hearing this video is really getting to me, too accurate. I wish everyone all of the best here. I didn’t realize there could be so many things that go into codependency. I see how serious it all is. I see how I’ve affected everyone bc mostly they’re all gone. I’m thankful for this video, I want to start recovering.
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I spent 20 years only seeing myself as "his wife" and "their mother" Finding out that im codependent knocked me on my ass. But as ive been in recovery, THE SUN IS SHINING AGAIN. Setting boundaries and not focusing outwardly has made me feel more in control than I've EVER felt in my life. I wish i knew this so long ago. But I'm grateful for this new lease on life💕🌈
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I was codependent but never felt un worsy. It's loving and picking the wrong partner over and over again.
Once you realise you are codependent and start learning to listen to your feelings and see the Partner who he really is... You leave with no anger. The anger I had was towards my parents who did many things wrong..To work on your childhood is very important.. can be very painfull with many tears. Needs to grow from child to Adult.
Today I know exactly what I want and who I let in my life. ❤️
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this has me crying because im realizing im codependent and have been all of my adult life. I dont love myself, dont feel i have any real value and dont know how i can make that change. im not one to be able to do affirmations and eventually believe them to be true. it feels like im trying to lie and trick myself. i cant afford therapy but im sure thats whats needed
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I definitely struggled with codependency in the past. I didn't feel like I could fully express who I was and so I hid my true self. It wasn't until I experienced several painful relationships that I realized something needed. The 2 biggest things that helped me was getting connected to a God of my understanding and healing the emotional wounds from my childhood. Thank you for your wisdom!!
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I was deeply hurt by someone who used me as a pet project to make herself feel good...a codependent who left me because I didn’t love her the way she wanted to be loved( I was kind, invested, I desired her and still do 5 yrs after the breakup) she cheated on me with a musician I introduced her to, and she kept me around while she was looking for someone else behind my back...I’m actually on this channel because I’ve been depressed for yrs and I fear I suffer from PTSD from it...
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I have a hard time seeing past my wife of 26 years. She is the only woman I've ever loved. Our kids are grown...We could have an amazing life right now..IM DEVASTATED... I want to heal from this and I pray that GOD blesses me with a woman who is evenly yoked with me. God bless you all! Real Talk!
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I’m codependent and I’m married to a narcissist 28 years he Lied and cheated I did everything for him still do we’re getting marriage counseling but I don’t think he loves me anymore this has made me realize so much about my addiction ti my husband it scares me to death that I may be loosing him but he is very toxic god bless people like you that do this for free 🙏😇
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Thanks for this, a lot of it resonated with me. I'm an addict and while I was in rehab I learnt of my co dependence. I saw all the co dependent relationships I'd had in my life, one after the other, it all became so obvious. Constantly trying to save people from hurting because I knew what it was to hurt. Madness.
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This was a very good informative session. My 28 year marriage I was married to a co-dependent. A got into a relationship afterwards and became co-dependent. This is highly confusing to me because I was so sure of myself during my marriage and refused to validate him which ultimately became so burdensome that I walked and never looked back. Yet, in my following relationship I became so co-dependent that I didn’t think I could live without him and it ultimately was the downfall of that relationship.
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