Views : 179,689
Genre: Music
Date of upload: Oct 12, 2022 ^^
Rating : 4.964 (104/11,534 LTDR)
RYD date created : 2024-05-05T23:43:09.356795Z
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Top Comments of this video!! :3
When that "perfect" relationship is quietly falling apart without anyone else noticing. Looking back years later, I realise that us, the "perfect" couple, were doing everything we possibly could to hurt one another, without even knowing what we were doing. How can a one minute song take me back all those years and reveal these truths to me again? Because art is universal, and this is great art. Help Myself and No Big Deal are like arrows through my heart. Healing for me, ultimately. I hope healing for dodie, too.
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TIP FOR GALLBLADDER ATTACK: I say this EVERY TIME you mention your gallbladder in hopes that you’ll see it - it helps me so much every time!! Put about 2-3 tablespoons of apple cider vinegar in a small glass of apple juice and chug it, followed by some more apple juice if the taste is too gross. Give it 20-30 mins and it should help even if it just takes the edge off. That, plus two paracetamol and two nurofen plus (the one with codeine in that you buy over the counter at the pharmacy) and a heat pack. Also I’m so sorry about your breakup, thank you so much for sharing something so personal with us, we’re honoured. Love you.
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Yesterday I found myself crying (of relief and shock) as I realised I’m finally no longer in love with my ex from nearly four years ago. A while ago I understood that I never got the chance to grieve that relationship because of bigger challenges happening in my life right after. Now I’ve been allowing myself those thoughts and feeling the pain for a while, and grieving actually got me somewhere.
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About disconnecting from the crying: that's the dissociation. Dissociation in its core is because one time in your life, things just got TOO much to handle for your system. Too many emotions to process! The mind thought: I'm gonna look at this from a point more far away, byeee.
So trying to feel the crying in your body is actually a good way to teach your mind to connect, that it's okay to be present with the emotions and to process them, even though it is really hard :( ! <3
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Being 27 and wondering when everything will get figured out, quite relatable. Something makes me think most adults/people were just figuring it out as they went along. Like a bicycle, forward momentum to keep from crashing, not that that is sustainable, sometimes you need off the ride despite how painful it may be.
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When you said:
"This is the year of pain... maybe I just have to lean into it"
I don't know why but it made me feel so fuzzy and warm. Leaning into the hard feelings can be so freeing and calling this the year of pain shows how temporary pain can be. I hope you feel better soon but I especially hope you just pamper yourself and lean in and write a f***ing amazing song about leaning into pain 😍
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oh my god, i’m literally going through the worst heartbreak right now and randomly decided to check up on this channel and found this ☹️☹️ it’s exactly what i need right now because i’ve felt like the loneliest person in the world the past few days and i feel terrible for being so depressed and crying so much- this video means so much to me ❤
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@goldfishcrayon
1 year ago
It doesn't matter the age- I don't think adults ever have their shit together. Just keep growing and try to be kind to yourself each step of the way.
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