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Date of upload: Nov 29, 2022 ^^
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Top Comments of this video!! :3
I've been told NPD is incurable and that people should run away. I finally figured out that no one in my family can give me perspective because they've been told I'm not capable of change.
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There's always an adaptive way, and a maladaptive way, and I'm glad we're getting to see people with cluster-B PDs really making pro-social choices for themselves and their own lives - because it IS possible. Past generations and their choices, their aversion to therapy, their harmful ways of coping, shouldn't be the only thing we consider when we view other human beings.
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It seems like most individuals know narcissism to show up or be displayed in one way. I hope this video offers a new perspective and understanding.
(Edit: I hope individuals come to understand the difference between narcissism as a personality trait vs. narcissistic personality disorder)
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So proud of you for doing this Tess ❤️ So proud that you're giving real kindness to yourself now too. I struggle with that as well and you're an inspiration, keep taking care of yourself and keep killing it ❤️
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I think something that would probably really help someone like her is to do things for others. Maybe volunteering and helping give food to those in need, and spending less time obsessing over her own features and spend more time with others. Just a thought!
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❤I seen her on TikTok I actually follow her ! This helps so many of us especially parents who have children who struggle ,with mental illness especially NPD BPD ADHD ODD ect.. so many need to show others and educate themselves ,and others as well ❤❤
There is such a strong negative stigma! ❤❤❤❤!
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With NPD, you’ll never cure it, but you can manage how you think about other people and manage your behavior to lessen the hurt you cause other people.
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Grandiosity as a defense against dependency. Affirmations won't help. The ability to focus on others and restate what they said. Which means you learn to really listen. It won't be easy. Said by a psychologist.
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Tessas and Jacobs friendship warms my heart
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It’s a stressful disorder to live with and be around. Lots of apologies we never get and all because we aren’t understood.
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Thank you so much for this.
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it's definitely on a spectrum and it's sad that they're all clumped in one and made out to be evil. I myself have been hurt by npd that I even have devloped bpd but some of them are really trying the best they can to be better.
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There are others who aren't aware of what it is even though they know something's wrong.
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❤loved this
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I can relate in many ways. I haver bpd with strong npd traits and Jacob and Tessa are one of the internet creators where I can truly relate and I dont have that often that I can relate to people mostly only with fictional characters
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really relate to that "fragments of the self"
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Tess ❤❤ you got this, we love you
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So many therapists and self proclaim narc-turned-guru makes so many wrong claims about npd, 2 of them are😢 that npd-s are not capable of loving and npd should be applied no-contact rule at all cost.
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thank you
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3 months ago
its been a year since I filmed this. I just wanted to say there is so much hope for healing npd. I am in such a better place now and understand so much deeper I didn't think it was possible. I was at my unhealthiest here in every way, mentally, physically, probably karma honestly because I was not genuinely committed to healing yet. I was objectifying my own disorder hoping it would get me famous and the relationship depicted here was beyond bad behind the scenes. I still struggle with this disorder daily but there is so much potential for managing it. i've wanted this video deleted so many times because I dislike the angles they used and was so unhappy with my presentation here but so many people have reached out and told me they were inspired by this video. I am learning to let go and practice acceptance and ignore external judgments I cant control.
so much of npd is fragmentation, terror of humiliation and shame based on external judgment and also, a very undeveloped core self. we live in a world where people speak their opinion like its fact and forget everything is subjective and we listen to others way too much when they can be bitter jealous or simply have different preferences. i'm taking my power back slowly. npds are struggling with lacking a core self almost entirely, since childhood. in order to heal we have to develop one
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