Views : 1,885,148
Genre: Music
Date of upload: Dec 15, 2017 ^^
Rating : 4.981 (180/37,099 LTDR)
RYD date created : 2022-04-08T02:32:56.482449Z
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Top Comments of this video!! :3
As a male victim of domestic abuse, this song means so much to me. Like I can relate to songs about female victims as well because abuse is abuse but there's something about hearing one specifically about a male victim hits different. I don't talk about it to people coz there's a deep level of shame surrounding it, but this song makes me feel so heard and understood.
I'm so grateful to Hozier for making thisā¤ļø
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āYou donāt understand. I mustāve done something wrong for her to be angry with me. It only happens sometimes.....
I could never hit her back! I love her too much to lay a finger on her. If she feels itās necessary then I will accept the blameā
A friend of mine who went through this heard it with me for the first time and he burst into tears knowing what he had with her was toxic.
This happens too often than we think. A light should be shed on all kinds of domestic abuse.
Especially mental illness of men who have gone through this!
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sheād be mentally and physically abusive. sheād always play the victim and would tell others iād abuse her. one day i just got up and left on my motorcycle. i remember the cold wind biting my face and my nose and cheeks growing cold and rosy. once i got home, yeah i cried. we guys go through it too, but we wonāt say anything in fear of being called weak and such. iām tired of that shit so yeah, thereās my story.
edit: thank you guys for the kind words. i get teary eyed every time i see the supportive words. iām doing way better then before. of course i still struggle, trust issues, anxiety, depression, etc, but iāve learned to manage it. your kind words give me more motivation to strive for the better. thank you again, and i hope you all are doing great, iām proud of you. :) <3
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he loves her so much and itās clear she doesnāt love him back. heās become so dependent on her, so infatuated with her, that whatever she does to him or doesnāt do to him just...doesnāt matter. as long as they have semi-sweet moments together, he doesnāt care. this song is so heartbreaking that i canāt even describe it
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@weebnoah1804
3 years ago
Fun fact, Hozier recorded this at 5 am on the top of an abandoned building thats why you can hear the birds in the back and it gives of that cold breeze vibe
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