@CallMeGameGirl

1 year ago

I think pronouns are not bad, but they're just in a way keeping to the stigma of "being female" and "being male" and they/them is just a way to non categorize yourself. When the pronouns are not the issue, it's the people putting gender into stereotypes. Demi saying "I've been feeling more feminine lately" well yeah, but that should have nothing to do with pronouns. I can feel more feminine somedays, and then dress and feel more masculine other days. But I identify as a she/her. People should be able to be whoever they wanna fucking be without being criticized for being too masculine for a female and too feminine for a male. In my eyes, pronouns are our way as a society to weed that behavior of stigmatized gender roles and getting people used to the concept so that we can one day accept eachother just how we are and not feel uncomfortable to be like a man when you're actually a woman. Or if you actually get a sex change, the process to get there won't be as harsh when it comes to how other people perceive it. And I have nothing against they/them pronouns, but its just a gateway to get to where we need to be in society. And I don't fully see it necessary in the long run. Genders and gender roles shouldn't be so strict and need to be more fluid. We shouldn't care if we are female or male by birth and what pronouns we go by. Just be your damn self and people just need to get to the point of acceptance overtime. And it will get there. All the ignorant elders will die off and we'll be left off with a more tolerance driven world where pronouns will likely be less of an issue and won't matter as much. Coz they serve a good purpose but in a small way keep the problem going until we finally get to our endgoal and remove them entirely. Pronouns I see a transition step in our history. I hope no one takes this the wrong way. But that's just my insight, I'm just thinking more long term than most would. I see a bigger picture. And I just see it problematic if people change up their pronouns based on if they feel more feminine or not than usual. Feel like doing that loses the purpose that they serve and the main point of why they became a thing to begin with. Will respect the decision, and call them what they want. But It's not fast fashion.

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