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Bill & Frank's story is one of the most moving things I've seen on TV in many years.
The ending they had, just the thought of "what if my wife asked me to help her go, if she were terminally ill?" Then the strength that Bill shows, to not only do it, but go with Frank, is just too much, I can feel the emotions well up just thinking about it now, it was such a deeply moving set of scenes, just wholly displaying what it means to love someone.
I'm so glad they showed a post apocalyptic world where there was still hope and joy to be had in each other.
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That is such the lovely thing about The Last of Us ep.3. Up until recently I couldn't imagine myself growing old in a queer way, it's just something that never came to me in my countless hours of imagining. But now I've started to picture it, after the episode, there's at least an idea to look forward to, just because I saw two old gays, something you don't see everyday.
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I watched the live stream, but here's a comment for the algorithm: I'm definitely going to check out In the Flesh after watching this. I think a piece of zombie media that would've been greatly improved by queer representation is Warm Bodies, as love is the whole point of that film. Episode 3 of The Last of Us made me cry so hard that I was worried my neighbors would come check on me. I'm not exaggerating. As a queer person with a degenerative neuromuscular disease, that episode hit me HARD!!!!!! People don't talk enough about how significant it is that Bill not only turns his back on Frank to play piano, but he immediately admits, "There's no girl," to a stranger. Frank could've been a raging homophobe who would've wanted to harm him for being gay. There were several real-world examples of that happening to people at that time. Bush was trying to ban gay marriage then, too, so this had to be intentional timing on the show's part. The fact that Frank cries when they first kiss, and Bill is so hesitant at first but reciprocates the kiss quickly despite how paranoid he is, shows just how lonely and starved for love both men have been. Frank may have gotten some gaydar vibes from Bill (the chargers, plating, and the way he poured the wine all read very queer to me, on top of all the body language and acting choices by Nick Offerman). Bill likely would've ignored any intuition like that he had, being as paranoid as he is. The show runners said Frank already knew about his MS/ALS, so he always knew he was going to deteriorate physically and need a lot of help. He definitely would've told Bill, and Bill was prepared to not only continue to protect them but to take care of Frank's physical needs. The man who doesn't care about appearances takes care of the flowers because he knows they're important to his partner, and he cares about Frank's emotional health as much as his physical one. Bill doing that is unfathomable on day 1. Bill and Frank getting married set at current day (as gay marriage staying legal in the US is on unsure footing) is so poignant. I definitely would've done the same as Bill and Frank at the end. If Nick Offerman doesn't win an Emmy for his performance, I'm going to be so upset. Thank you, Megan Mullally, for telling your husband to take this role. The world is better for it.
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THANK YOU for covering In the Flesh!! It's such a vastly underrated show in my opinion, and it's actually where I got my name from. I'm trans, but didn't realize it when I first watched the show back in 2013-2014. I just heavily related to Kieren and thought, "Oh, if I ever had a son I'd name him that." Cut to a few years later and Kieren is now my legal name.
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I remember watching the last of us episode three with my dad. It had me bawling. It's rare that media makes me truly cry, especially that hard, but even when it does it's because something sad happens.
I didn't start crying when they died though. I started crying as their love grew.
I don't think I've ever cried because media had made me so happy.
It was so beautiful and so lovely. And as realizations kept coming on as there was no marriage equality at the time, and they'd have survived the aids epidemic, and just how normally forbidden that love would've been, I'd cry harder.
After the episode ended my dad turned to me to see my face drenched with tears. I said "there's no way you didn't cry right?" And to my surprise, he did. My dad who'd years ago called my bisexuality a phase cried at that.
I think the beauty of that episode was that it was a beautiful love story, and it'd still be beautiful even if it wasn't gay, but the beauty was strengthened by that queerness. It wasn't just representation, it felt like normalization. The queerness was portrayed so naturally and that's what was so amazing to me.
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I know people love season 2 of In The Flesh, but season 1 emotionally wrecked me with its rumination on the whole concept of what would happen in a family and a community if someone who did what Kieran did came back. it was brutally honest in a way very very few shows had ever dared to be at the time
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@morganleanderblake678
1 year ago
"I was never afraid until you showed up." This is... Super big. When you've been in the wrong relationships with the wrong presentation or thinking you're straight, suddenly really understanding what it is to have someone you desperately want to keep alive, safe, happy...
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