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Please share lessons you have learnt in the comments and let me know any other autistic content creators you love to follow!
Watch my "I am autistic. All the things I wish I had the chance to say before." video here
   â˘Â I am autistic. All the things I wish ... Â
⨠Some people/books I recommend in the video â¨
The Autistic girls Network: autisticgirlsnetwork.org/
Meg's channel, I'm autistic now what:    / @imautisticnowwhat Â
Paige Layle:    / @realpaigelayle Â
Chloe Hayden: www.chloehayden.com.au/
Ellie Midds: www.weareunmasked.com/ellie
Neurodivergent Lou: www.instagram.com/neurodivergent_lou
The Autistic Chef: vanessadsouza.co.uk/
⨠Follow me! â¨
Instagram: instagram.com/sew.lilah
Business website: lillianhopedesigns.co.uk/
TIME STAMPS:
0:00 - 1 year since my autism diagnosis!
3:35 - Your diagnosis IS valid, even if you don't 'feel autistic' all the time.
5:31 - Your journey is different from EVERYONE else's
7:29 - Find your community!
9:43 - There WILL be people who try and invalidate your diagnosis.
12:15 - There will ALSO be people who WANT to understand.
14:08 - Put TIME into understanding your autistic self!
16:16 - People saying you are 'more autistic' after diagnosis.
18:22 - You are NOT to blame!
20:41 - Don't burn yourself out! BUT if you do, don't hide it.
22:31 - There is FREEDOM in accepting yourself!
24:02 - Let me know what other lessons you have learnt in the comments.
Views : 910
Genre: People & Blogs
Date of upload: Apr 4, 2024 ^^
Rating : 5 (0/69 LTDR)
RYD date created : 2024-05-02T21:29:12.533063Z
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Top Comments of this video!! :3
The most important lessons I learned is that I am allowed to forgive myself for not being perfect, and that I am allowed do what I can to avoid being overwhelmed by sensory stimuli or social situations. That I neednât feel guilt for taking care of myself.
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Thanks for sharing. The self-love message is hugely important! That's going to be an ongoing struggle. Advocating for myself & trying to automatically fawn less, comes to mind as things i struggle with on the daily
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One lesson I learned is that the reaction, âbut everyone does that/feels that wayâ, although invalidating, is often said by an undiagnosed autistic person. Btw really appreciated your spoken word video!
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To be myself, no matter what. If I don't allow myself to be myself, I can burn out very quickly.
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thank you sew
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As an autistic parent to 4 kids in the age span of 5 to 17 year of age.. you can definitely be a good parent as a person with autism.. ⤠the hardest part for me is seeing 3 of my kids struggle because they also are autist and the society are not a place for autistic people.. but they are all thriving ik their own way, they got friends (both neuro divergent and typical) and they will as me be able to keep a job.
My country are getting way better to handle autistic people in an inclusive way, but we are not done..
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Do u consider getting a fidget toy đ
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My top lesson i learned is im not the problemâŚđĽ˛
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@sewlilah
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What is your top lesson you have learnt since realising you were autistic? I definitely still struggle with not burning myself out by doing too much đ does not help the ADHD side of my brain just needs to be constantly doing stuff and can't relax! Let me know if you would be interested in a video about my diagnostic journey and I hope you have a great day đĽ°
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