Views : 108,057
Genre: Entertainment
Date of upload: Premiered Mar 4, 2023 ^^
Rating : 4.888 (264/9,173 LTDR)
RYD date created : 2024-04-22T08:36:41.045428Z
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Top Comments of this video!! :3
As a lesbian, I feel like this wouldnāt be an issue if she acknowledged what stereotypes that perpetuated against queer women every day and what issues and fetishization we face with men every day. If she acknowledged that this is her own experience and her own sexuality but does not represent queer women as a whole, there would be much less of an issue. If she actually listened to the criticisms rather than getting immediately defensive, it would benefit her much more.
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As a queer girl(lesbian to be specific) who has been outed in highscool, this type of behaviour angers me so much. Straight women who "love to kiss girls when they're drunk" get to be percieved as fun, wild and sexy while queer women are seen as predatory or promiscuous. They will never experience the looks of disgust we recieve when we walk in bathrooms and changing rooms or see girls who were previously comfortable start to cover themselve right when they see us. This type of behaviour trivializes the homophobia we face and takes meaning away from sapphic relationships, it's disappointing to see...
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I love this video. She could very well be a hetero-romantic bisexual woman, but I agree, I hate the way she is going about discussing it. Iām also a bisexual woman, but I am romantically attracted to more than one gender as well. Iām into casual sex, threesomes, all of the stereotypical ābiā things too, but she is promoting being sapphic as something that exists to please men. I donāt want people to see me as a sex doll because Iām bisexual, I want them acknowledge the emotional connections I can feel with women too
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As a queer woman, I share your offense and intense discomfort. We're not things. We're not objects to be used by the straight girls to turn on their boyfriends/husbands. Like, dude. There is an effing difference.
Granted, with full knowledge and consent, it's fine, but it's the way she talks about it. The way she seems to think about it.
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the really annoying thing is not only does it take away from queer women and invalidating them but it also invalidates women who are only sexually attracted to women and not romantically (bc sexual and romantic attraction is different so people can be only sexually attracted to women and not romantically) by painting them as someone who's overly sexual or doing it for a man or calling them a slut or a whore for their orientation. it makes it feel like they're saying being sexually but not romantically attracted to women but being both for a man means you are automatically doing it for the man and you want to be sexualized by a man and it is so fucking gross.
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Yes thank you so much for talking about this, I've been afraid to get into a relationship with a women because every women I've even been with has only been with me because it's "fun" and I end up falling in love and basically being their girlfriend and giving them all of the support and shit they want but also be there listening to them complain about how no one loves them or does all the things i do for them, then a man comes around and does half the shit I do and all of a sudden they are the best person in the world.
I have it in my head now that no women will ever love me more than they love a man
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I hate how it's not cheating as long as you're doing it with a girl. I am pansexual and in a monogamous relationship. If you're kissing, having sex, or even sexting/chatting with other people you're cheating. How dare she mock the guy that wasn't comfortable with it. Not every guy is going to be okay with you cheating on them
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@jessiepaege
1 year ago
also wanted to acknowledge that you can have sexual attraction and not romantic attraction!! thatās valid. I even said in this video āeveryoneās sexuality is their ownā, so when she said she thinks sheās straight in two videos, I talked about her as being straight because who am I to tell someone theyāre not straight if thatās what they explicitly state they are. again, no hurt feelings here, just wanted to point out why so many queer women felt a bit invalidated by this after my friend told me to make a video on this!
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